tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5362160741546688469.post3611298091683741296..comments2024-03-14T06:38:46.929-05:00Comments on Unabashedly Me: Just friends?Micahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02820001783545167859noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5362160741546688469.post-48796252640612303982012-02-15T16:13:14.481-06:002012-02-15T16:13:14.481-06:00I have a lot of guy friends and we are strictly fr...I have a lot of guy friends and we are strictly friends. Some of them are like brothers to me. I've been friends with my bestie Zach for almost 20 years and we've been nothing but friends. It might be because a lot of guys see me as "one of the guys" since I'm so into sports. I will say that most of my boyfriends were once a guy friend before we started dating though.<br /><br />I'm intrigued by the story plot!! I would love to read it when you are done!!<br /><br />:)Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06512363858602116279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5362160741546688469.post-22488564971136729832012-02-15T10:19:45.717-06:002012-02-15T10:19:45.717-06:00In all honesty, I thought it was possible until I ...In all honesty, I thought it was possible until I saw the movie When Harry Met Sally, and then I started thinking about the friendships I've had with guys over the years. I've come to the conclusion that it really is not possible to have a long term, sustaining friendship with a guy. In fact, I've recently had to let go of a friendship 5+ year friendship with one of my closest guy friends because things just got too complicated.<br /><br />Anyway, GREAT post! It's a super interesting topic. I may even have to do my own post on it sometime considering how much I had to say just now in this lil comment box =)Ashley Pringlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07097525999396627897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5362160741546688469.post-12236323622246457192012-02-15T09:21:16.490-06:002012-02-15T09:21:16.490-06:00I have had several male friends who I've known...I have had several male friends who I've known for years and have never had any interest in them romantically...and as far as I know, they have never had any interest in me that way either. A few of them were friends with whoever I was dating when I met them, which might have something to do with me never seeing them that way. There are others I've known since high school and some I met in college that I was just never interested...not because they were hideous either. I just never felt that way towards them, maybe because I liked someone else, I can't really remember that far back. :) That's not to say I haven't had any guy friends that I was interested in as more than friends, I have. That's just not the case with every male friend I've ever had.Jillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06910956418567636492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5362160741546688469.post-60393858402169178272012-02-15T09:01:19.597-06:002012-02-15T09:01:19.597-06:00I believe it is, while not impossible, it is most ...I believe it is, while not impossible, it is most likely true guys and girls can't be just friends. Something attracted them to one another in the first place. Either the girl was mad crushing for him, or vice versa. Feelings always are there somewhere. Unless they are completely hideous, or you're blind and lonely for any attention, someone in the friendship is feeling something about someone at sometime. <br />To tell the truth, I am sure some of the ones not saying anything to you, have had thoughts of romance at sometime in the friendship. Eye patches sort out those problems. ;-)paulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13700089122897710775noreply@blogger.com