tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5362160741546688469.post3644435787120753832..comments2024-03-14T06:38:46.929-05:00Comments on Unabashedly Me: The trouble with knowing what you wantMicahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02820001783545167859noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5362160741546688469.post-34292947796933711402013-09-13T12:35:19.916-05:002013-09-13T12:35:19.916-05:00Yes. Yes to all of this. I, like you, am content b...Yes. Yes to all of this. I, like you, am content being single, and I've had guys ask me out or have gone on a few dates in the past year that have not excited me to the point of taking it further. I *want* to be excited about a relationship! Not that I'm dismissing every guy I talk to, but I would like to think that there's someone out there who can make me happy and feel like I'm worth something more. I haven't found that yet...or, well, I haven't found that *again*, since I think I did find it once many years ago. Whatever...men are idiots :-P<br /><br />Keep your mind open, though...you never know what could happen! But for me, if I don't wake up thinking "Did he text me?? Is he awake yet? I can't wait to talk to him!! I wonder if he's thinking of me, too..." then it's not worth pursuing anymore. I have to have that urge to be with him!Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12074673520731619399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5362160741546688469.post-5175346659450201002013-09-03T21:10:56.238-05:002013-09-03T21:10:56.238-05:00I think you should go into it with an open mind. Y...I think you should go into it with an open mind. You're right - you may be missing out on some great guys. But at the same time, don't settle. I know that's kind of a double standard. Haha. But what I'm trying to say is, give the ones a chance that you haven't been. They may actually be the "him" that you're looking for! ;)Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10030025985802181092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5362160741546688469.post-65834320462856021002013-09-03T08:29:51.342-05:002013-09-03T08:29:51.342-05:00I don't really have advice on how to change yo...I don't really have advice on how to change your mentality, but don't give up on the butterflies. You should have butterflies! While love-at-first-sight isn't always realistic, giddiness and butterflies certainly are.Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12075708535155080258noreply@blogger.com