Unabashedly Me

Five Things Friday ... and a GIVEAWAY!

2012-03-02T09:25:00.005-06:00

I don't know about you all, but I am so glad it's Friday. It's been a rough week ... for a lot of reasons I won't get into here. Fortunately, there's been some good news in there too, which I also can't share here. Gah. Sorry for all the vagueness. But it's for the best, truly.

Enough of that.

Here are five awesome things from this week that I CAN share:

.1.

My new favorite tumblr.

Seriously funny stuff here.

I laughed out loud at least once on each page.

.2.

My new Tyrone Wells CD "Where We Meet" has shipped. Love this man. The first released song, "Freedom" makes me dance in my desk chair and car. Check it out, and if you like what you hear, head over to itunes at 1 p.m. (CST) on Tuesday and buy "Where We Meet." Yes, it'll be available earlier, but that time is key. And, yes, I'll be buying a second copy as part of this campaign. It could help launch Tyrone into the #1 spot on itunes for the day. He deserves it.

.3.

I tried a yoga class for the first time last night.

I'll write more about it on Tuesday, but it's suffice to say I enjoyed it.

.4.

During boot camp class on Tuesday, someone commented that they can tell I've lost some weight.

I've worked really hard, so it's nice when people notice.

.5.

A sweater I wore once had pilled out in the wash. So gross. I thought it was done.

But my mom let me borrow her clothes shaver (who knew such a thing existed), and voila!

The sweater is wearable again.

Yay!

And now ... for a GIVEAWAY!!

I have Spring Fever already. I keep thinking about baseball and shorts and sun. Of course that also means sandal weather is around the corner. It might be time to start really taking care of our feet.

That's why I'm giving away one

Mary Kay Pedicure Set.

This set includes foot balm, foot soak, pedicure tool and a cute zippered bag.

These are amazing, by the way. I got one after Relay For Life a few years ago, and it was heaven to my feet after a night in which I'd walked about 20 miles.

There are three ways to get your name in the drawing.
1. Follow this blog on GFC. Leave me a comment saying you've done this.
2. Leave me a comment about your favorite thing about spring.
3. Follow @TheBestMicah on Twitter. Leave a comment saying you've done this.

The winner will be announced on March 10.
Good luck!

It's OK Thursday ...

2012-03-01T08:10:00.000-06:00

It's OK ...

... to have just vegetables for supper after indulging at lunch.

I wanted to eat with coworkers during the noon hour, so I adapted in the evening.

... to start mentally packing for a trip that doesn't start for two weeks.

I don't want to forget anything important.

... to just have a good cry for no reason at all.

It just helps to let it all out every now and then.

... to let mail collect on the table/counter all week.

I'll sort through it this weekend.

... to start thinking about going to Blissdom next year.

Amber and Neely have sold me on it.

... to wish I lived closer to my parents and brother.

Monthly weekend visits just aren't enough sometimes.

... to have about ten Scentsy bars in the closet.

I'm a Scentsy hoarder.

... to type out entries and then delete them because I just don't want to share that much.

I walk a very fine line when it comes to being myself vs. oversharing on this blog.

... to keep a private online journal for thoughts I'm not ready to share.

And, trust me, I have a lot of them.

... to have neglected writing on my novel for the past two nights.

I did so well on Sunday and Monday. I'll get back to it.

... to be happy March is here.

February kind of sucked.

What's OK with you?

What I'm Loving Wednesday

2012-02-29T08:28:00.000-06:00

The weather is dreary and cold. Half-frozen precipitation is falling outside, and there's a 50 percent chance of snow by the end of the day. We've had such a mild winter up until about a week ago. I guess Mother Nature wants to make one last statement before she gives us Spring. But come on, warmer temps.

Anyhow, I'm not going to let the weather get me down. It is Wednesday, which means we're halfway to the weekend!! And it's also time to link up with Jamie!

I'm loving ...

... the "Take On the World" playlist I made on Spotify.

It's full of songs that are empowering and a few that just make me smile and feel good.

It's come in handy this week.

Feel free to subscribe if you like it too.

... the fact that I am halfway to my weight-loss goal.

I know there is still a battle ahead, but I'm love how I'm feeling.

... blood orange Chobani yogurt.

It's one of four new flavors they released recently, and it's becoming my favorite.

So good.

... friends who encourage my crazy dreams.

Over the weekend, we were discussing what would be on the soundtrack for the movie that my current novel would become.

It's completely unrealistic, but so fun to think about.

... that some friends are seeing their childhood dreams come true.

I'm so thrilled that Jacob is finally getting to be a full-time firefighter.

... the fact that the Buena Vista men's basketball team is playing in the DIII NCAA Tournament.

They take on top-seeded Washington University (St. Louis) on Friday night.

So excited for them.

... that today is Leap Day.

There's nothing special about it for me.

But it's still fun that it only occurs every four years.

... that two weeks from today, I will be leaving for Arizona for Rangers baseball and fun with some of my favorite people.

I absolutely cannot wait.

What are you loving this week?

WLJ: Dancing shoes ... oh, and the halfway mark!

2012-02-28T08:14:00.003-06:00

A few weeks ago, I told you how excited I was to get my new Zumba shoes. Yes, after just a month of Zumba, I could tell it was something I wanted to stick with, and I decided I needed shoes devoted to it. I consulted with a friend of mine who is a Zumba instructor and did some online research. I read a lot of reviews and looked at a number of shoes. There are a lot of great options out there, but I ended up with these Ryka Transitions.

Aren't they pretty?

Now that I've used them for a few classes, I feel like I can share my thoughts on them.

Before I got my Rykas, I was wearing basic running shoes. They are great for other workouts, but not for Zumba. Running shoes are designed for traction. That's not what you want when you're dancing. You want to be able to glide and pivot a little better. My Rykas have helped me do just that. The soles are smooth enough that I can do turns without worrying about messing up my knees or hips.

Also, the shoes are quite a bit lighter (because they're designed for dance), so picking up my feet for higher impact moves and jumps is a little easier. I didn't realize how "heavy" my running shoes were until I got the Rykas. Of course, this means there's not a ton of padding in the sole, but so far that hasn't been an issue for me. Even with fallen arches, this shoe provides adequate support.

Finally, the sole is really narrow, but that's typical of dance shoes. I was a little worried about that because I have a bit of a wide foot, and they tend to expand after I've been working out awhile (something I learned when I started running). I ordered a half-size larger (7 instead of a 6.5) because that was recommended by almost every review, and they're perfect.

Overall, I love my Ryka Transitions. They have made such a difference in my workouts. I'm not saying they made me better at all the tough moves (no shoe can do that ... ha ha), but they certainly made some of the moves easier. I've gotten plenty of compliments on them from the women in my Zumba class too, which is always nice.

With spring on the horizon, I've started my hunt for new running shoes. I currently sport Nike Lunarglide 2s. I've had them for almost two years, so even though they still look great, they're probably close to the end of their mileage. I really liked the Nike shoes, so I'll probably stick with that brand. Plus, they sync with my ipod nano, which is a must for me. The other criteria is bright colors. It's more fun to get out and run when my shoes are colorful. I've done some online shopping, but haven't committed to anything yet. Here are a few of the ones I'm currently considering:

AirMax Tailwind 4

AirMax Moto 9

Free Run 2

Lunarfly 3

I can't wait to start running outside. The ~~dreadmill~~ treadmill just doesn't do it for me.

Weight-loss goal: 40 lbs.
This week's progress: -2.8 lbs.
Progress to date: -20.6 lbs.
Non-scale victory: One of my goals this year is to run at least five 5Ks. Last night, I started scouting possible races online, and I think I can surpass that goal if I really want to. I've found awesome race opportunities for April, May, June, July and September. I would really like to find one each for August and October too. Who am I becoming? Oh, that's right -- me. I'm becoming me. A more awesome me.

Music Monday: Christina Aguilera - "I Am"

2012-02-27T08:00:00.000-06:00

Unless you're a diehard Christina fan, you probably haven't heard this tune. It was a track on "Bionic." I'm a huge Christina fan (again the MMC connection), and I only liked two or three tracks on the album. Christina is incredibly talented, but that album just didn't do her any favors. This is one of the few gems. Enjoy.

Weekend Recap: 13th SK6ERS show edition

2012-02-26T22:53:00.000-06:00

I had an absolutely amazing weekend. I've been meaning to write this update all evening, but right now -- at quarter after ten -- I finally have a few minutes to compose my thoughts before I head to bed. Yep. It's been a busy day. But a good one.

Friday night, I went to my usual Zumba class and then relaxed in front of the TV. I got started on writing chapter 13 of my novel, which is moving along very well. It most likely won't be done by the start of baseball season (the story just keeps evolving), but I'm definitely on a mission to finish this one and get it published. Stay tuned for that journey.

Saturday morning, I went back to Zumba class. We learned a new song/routine, which will be added to the mix next session. It's a hula-inspired one, so it's a lot of hips and legs. Very challenging, but I think I could learn to like it. After the class, I ran some quick errands, showered and hit the road to Ames. I listened to the Iowa State men's basketball game during the drive and caught the second half when I arrived at my parents' house. Fortunately, the game ended better than the second half began. My beloved Cyclones are having a fantastic season. So are my (alma mater) Buena Vista Beavers. More on that later though. After the game, I had a little time to relax and catch up with my mom and dad before my evening started. Oh, and it was a grand evening.

Jamie picked me up and we met up with Alicia at Olde Main Brewing Company for dinner. I had already scouted the menu the previous night to determine a Weight Watchers-friendly option. I knew I wanted an Off KILTer draft. I love that brew, and it tastes so much better out of the tap than out of a bottle. It went perfectly with my salmon, yukon gold mashed potatoes (of which I only ate half) and steamed vegetables. While we ate and enjoyed the fine beers, we discussed my novel (Jamie and Alicia are two of my beta readers), the concert we were going to that night and a lot of other things we all have in common. I've known Jamie since we were 8 years old, and I met Alicia during college. But the three of us always have a great time together. It's so awesome when friends from different areas of my life come together and get along so well.

When were were full (well, I was beyond full), we headed to the M-Shop on campus for Stephen Kellogg & the Sixers. This was my 13th time seeing them, and I've sold merch at all but four of those shows. In fact, I've been merch girl at so many concerts in the past few years, I've forgotten what it feels like to just enjoy a show and get completely absorbed in it. I'm glad I got to feel that again last night with SK6ERS. Well, the tour manager spotted me and pulled me in to help her set up the merch table, but I was free the rest of the evening. And I'm so glad. The boys put on an amazing show --- and they even played the song Jamie requested via facebook. It was her second time seeing them and Alicia's first. It definitely won't be the last show for any of us, although I know I'll be hoping for less douchey concert neighbors next time. They didn't completely succeed in ruining my enjoyment of the concert, although they certainly tried. But the boys on stage won out.

Stephen is an amazing songwriter and storyteller, and everyone in the band is a crazy talented musician. The first time I saw them, I had only heard maybe two songs, but after the show was over, I went home and bought everything in their catalog. That was five and a half years ago, and they've only gotten better with time. If you ever get a chance to see them live, do it.

Here are a few of my favorite photos from the show ...

So amazing.

Seriously.

After the concert, we powered through the frigid wind to travel a few blocks to a campus bar my brother owns. They were celebrating Mardi Gras, so there were beads galore. Fortunately, I didn't see any boobs. Of the female persuasion, anyway. There were plenty of guys pulling up or opening their shirts to earn some beads (the person with the most at the end of the night got $100). Even though I'm well beyond the college age, I enjoy people watching at the campus bars. Especially this one. It's an added bonus when members of the men's basketball team show up and dance on stage. Well, only one dances on the stage. And he's a master of "The Bernie" (a dance I only recently discovered). He's all the entertainment I needed. Ha ha ha.

Oh, and while we were out, I checked facebook and saw that the Buena Vista men's basketball team WON the conference championship game. They are now headed to the NCAA Division III tournament!!! So exciting!!

I didn't get back to my parents' house until almost two in the morning. And I still woke up around eight (silly internal clock). I managed to stay in bed until a little after nine, but it was a battle. I had brunch with the parents and then went in search of a Fred Hoiberg shirt I'd seen a few weeks earlier. It took three different stores, but we finally found it. And I am now a proud owner of this fine article of clothing:

I love Fred.

I headed home late this afternoon, where I promptly went into a Skype date with Nikki, uploaded photos from the weekend and caught up on my Google Reader feed.

And ... now ... I'm exhausted.

I think I need a weekend to recover from my weekend.

Online window shopping

2012-02-25T08:44:00.000-06:00

I love online shopping. You hit a few keys and - poof - something shows up at your door a few days later. OK, so it's not quite that miraculous. And there is some money exchanged. But still. It's so much fun. I've been doing a lot of online shopping lately ... but I've stopped myself before I actually spend the cash. I remind myself that I don't NEED any of these things. It's fun to look though.

Here are a few things I want, but totally shouldn't buy myself:

from MLB Shop

I have a ton of Rangers shirts. I really don't need another one, although I can neither confirm nor deny that I am planning to purchase a new shirsey when I'm in Arizona for Spring Training next month.

Found here

Yep, that's a Fred Hoiberg shirt. I wish it it was different colors and not so cartoon-looking, but it's Fred. On a shirt. So much love.

From Zappos

I keep seeing people rave about Patagonia jackets. And now I want one. But I have three perfectly fine winter coats, and I don't like wearing coats otherwise. So do I really need one?

From Amazon

I have Vol. 1 of this game. I absolutely love it. I play it quite often. I rented Vol. 2 and didn't care for the song selection, but I really want Vol. 3. I keep waiting for the price to go down, but it's only dropped about a dollar since Christmas time. I guess I'll keep waiting.

From Amazon

Monica at RunEatRepeat wrote about this book a few days ago, and I'm intrigued. But I have so many books on my "to-read" list, and there are six books on my Kindle I haven't even cracked. I've been using my free time for WRITING a book instead of reading one. I really don't need to purchase another book only to have it sit there for a year before I get to it.

Yay for Raygun

I love love love this Iowa company. I picked this shirt up for Jenn a few years ago, and I'm wishing I'd gotten one for myself. There's still time, I mean, they're not sold out or anything, but I already have a massive t-shirt collection. I really don't need another one. Do I?

From Overstock

I'm going to Mary Kay Career Conference for the first time next month. This means I really should buy a skirt suit. I didn't realize how expensive they are, and I'm especially hesitant to spend a lot of dough on clothes when I plan on the size changing in the next few months. I like this one a lot though. And $91 isn't so bad, right? I just wish I could try it on. I have weird (read: broad) shoulders. Even with Overstock's excellent return policy, I'm having a hard time jumping on this.

Do you get the online shopping bug?

How do you fight it?

How do you justify it?

Friday's Link Love

2012-02-24T07:51:00.000-06:00

I read a lot of great blogs every day. I'm following the lead of Casey at Stress Case and offering up some love to my favorite reads of the week.

Enjoy!

The Frenemy talks about hope. "The people that inspire you, push you, change you, awe you, and fill you with the kind of good stuff that makes you think 'Hey, I’m glad I know them. Now I want them to think it’s glad to know me, too.'” Love love love this blog. If you're not following it, you need to be.

Jen at People I Want to Punch in the Throat writes about annoying facebook updates. I'm guilty of ~~some~~ many of these, but I still found this post hilariously accurate. It might make me monitor my own updates more often.

Kristin shared her perspective on health and body image. I posted something similar on that very day, and seeing someone else with the same thoughts helped me feel a little more validated.

Kristin at Iowa Girl Eats (my favorite food blog) posted a delicious recipe for brown butter banana bread cookies. I "star" at least one of her recipes every week, and I've tried a handful of them so far. So yummy. Can't wait to try these cookies.

Sarah shared the adorable pictures from her rain shower-themed baby shower. I've only been following her blog a short while, but even I'm excited for the arrival of baby Jake.

Daily Pep Talk From a Best Friend is always good. But I especially liked this one about being great.

Rachel showcased her favorite ideas for a library in her dream house. I could get on board with one of those. Especially the ones with a window seat. Gorgeous!

And how about a little eye and ear candy for this awesome Friday ...

By the way, this talented boy is doing an awesome charity drive right now. All you have to do is "like" his facebook page, and $1 will be donated to SOS Children's Villages, an international charity that provides orphaned and abandoned children with a mother, a house, food, education, and health care. And if you provide your e-mail address, he'll send you some free tunes. That, I believe, is what they call a win-win!

It's OK Thursday

2012-02-23T08:46:00.000-06:00

It's OK ...

... to be completely obsessed with Selena Gomez' music.

So what if she's about half my age?

"Love You Like a Love Song" is so catchy.

... to love the ego boost that comes when friends ask for a new chapter of the story.

Clearly, I must be doing an OK job of writing it.

Eff the haters.

... to realize I may not finish this novel by baseball season like I hoped.

It's becoming a much more complicated story than I thought.

I would have to write at least two chapters a week to finish by Opening Day

That's probably not going to happen, but I'm doing my best.

... to wish I could take Zumba class every day.

I like kettlebell, but I LOVE Zumba.

I know I need balance in my workouts though, so I'll keep alternating both.

... to sleep later than intended and just have yogurt for breakfast.

This is a pretty regular occurrence.

I know I need to stop using the "snooze" button.

... that I won't catch up on my Wednesday/Thursday TV until Sunday night.

I opted for ISU basketball last night. Yay Cyclones! Yay Fred!

Tonight, I'm going to watch Beaver basketball. First conference tourney game.

Thank goodness for DVR.

... to be saving weekly WW points so I can drink on Saturday night.

Yup.

I know I'm not the only one who does this either.

... to realize this Saturday's SK6ERS concert will be the first one in five years at which I won't be selling merch.

It's probably going to feel weird.

But I'm also going to enjoy just being able to watch the show.

... that I still wish I could clone Dave Barnes and have one all for myself.

Love his voice, his music and his sense of humor.

He'll be in Dallas a week after I leave there. Sad.

Love him. Love him. Love him.

... to be counting down the days until I go to Arizona.

Twenty.

What I'm Loving Wednesday

2012-02-22T09:14:00.000-06:00

Linking up with Jamie again today.

I'm loving ...

... seeing pictures of my favorite baseball boys emerge as they report to Spring Training.

Winter is unofficially over.

Go Rangers!!

This is our year.

... Will Hoge's entire musical catalog.

I was listening yesterday and realized how perfectly some of the songs -- lyrics and tone -- match the novel I'm writing. Hmmm.

... last night's "Glee."

They sent a really powerful message.

When will bullying end?

... that the weekend is almost here.

I have some fun things planned.

I'm ready.

... this quote I saw on a friend's facebook.

Yup.

... the new Jason Mraz song, "I Won't Give Up."

The first few times I heard it on the radio, I didn't know it was him.

But it has such a great message. I'm obsessed with it.

What are you loving?

WLJ: Real talk

2012-02-21T08:29:00.000-06:00

I had a little bit of a gain this week. Actually, I gained what I had lost last week. It's not fun, but I'm not going to beat myself up over it. It won't do any good, and, in fact, I think it will actually hurt me more in the long run.

Everyone is motivated in a different way. When it comes to fitness and weight-loss goals, some people use charts, small rewards or even these cute weight-loss jars (I'm considering doing this, by the way).

I prefer to celebrate my successes and not dwell on my failures. Let's face it. There will be bad food choices, bad workouts and days when I just don't feel like tracking. That's all part of the journey. I can learn from each of those mistakes, but they won't define me or my weight-loss journey.

Negativity and shame don't work with me. They never have. I used to look at pictures of myself at my heaviest and think -- that's my motivation. But they weren't. My motivation comes in the form of positive mantras and feeling the changes in my body that don't show up on the scale. I may not be all the way to my number goal, but I am in far better shape than I was a year ago. And a year from now, I'll be in better shape yet. Even though I am still aiming for a number on the scale, my ultimate goal is just to stay active, strive for better fitness and challenge myself to do things I never thought I could. That's how I measure my success.

Source: healthylivingforyou.tumblr.com via Micah on Pinterest

Weight-loss goal: 40 lbs.
This week's progress: +1.4
Progress to date: -17.8 lbs.
Non-scale victory: I had to skip my workout yesterday after sinus/allergy issues made me dizzy most of the weekend. I really missed working out. To me, that signals that being active has become a habit and part of my daily life and not something extra. This makes me happy.

Music Monday: Stephen Kellogg & the Sixers - "Gravity"

2012-02-20T08:45:00.000-06:00

Yep, they get to be highlighted twice this month. Deal with it.

I'm going to see them live this Saturday. It'll be my first concert of 2012, and I'm taking two people who have never seen SK6ERS perform. It's going to be great. And they're going to love it.

Here's a video featuring one of the tracks off their new album, "Gift Horse."

Bonus:

I know some people who get annoyed when musicians write a bunch of songs about their families, but those songs melt me. And they show a whole other side of the musician. I think sometimes it's easy to forget they're not just musicians. They're also someone's child, spouse, sibling, parent, etc. Some of my favorite SK songs are the ones he's written about his daughters.

To his firstborn, Sophia:

This one was also about Sophia, if I'm not mistaken:

To the second one, Adeline:

To the baby, Noelle:

He references Sophia here, but I can see this being a song for all of them:

Friday Fiver - My Most-Read Posts

2012-02-17T09:58:00.000-06:00

I am exhausted today. I stayed up late too many times this week. I'm paying for it. And I'll probably be in bed by nine tonight. Yep, on a Friday. That's how I roll.

I looked at my stats section the other day, and I was amused by the most-read posts on this blog. I thought I'd share them with you. They'll be old to a few of you (the faithful) and new to the rest (rookies!). Enjoy!

Friday Fiver - Favorite Reality Stars (Jan. 28, 2011) --I don't know why this one is so popular, but it has a ton of views. I think it's because of the picture of Dr. Stork at the top. Mmmm.

Music Monday: Stephen Kellogg & the Sixers - "In Front of the World" (Jan. 30, 2012) - This one's all SK's fault. They plugged this entry on their facebook and twitter accounts, and the views skyrocketed.

Adventures in Speed Dating (Aug. 1, 2010) - This is still one of my favorite posts. Speed dating can be a lot of fun, but there are inevitably some duds. They just make for good stories at the end of the night though. I used my experiences to write a Do/Don't post about speed dating.

A kiss is NOT just a kiss (Jan. 2, 2011) - I made a huge confession and braced myself for judgement. I know what people think when they learn this about me, and I can't change their perceptions, but I'm also not changing who I am. Deal with it.

Friday Fiver - TV Shows of my youth (March 12, 2011) - I have no idea why this one is so popular either. But I love remembering all the shows I used to live for (some of which I can find on late night TV these days).

Happy Friday!

It's OK Thursday

2012-02-16T10:12:00.001-06:00

It's OK ...

... to be really sad about missing a Tim Stop show tomorrow night.

I haven't missed a Central Iowa Tim Stop show in almost three years.

But I just can't make it this weekend.

If any of my friends go, can someone please concert call me. Thanks and hugs.

Here's a video to tide me over (especially since it's one of my FAVORITE songs on his new album),

And I never turn down an opportunity to put in a plug for him.

... to really enjoy being a part of the student-dominated pep band.

Sometimes, the disorganization drove me crazy, but I had a lot of fun.

I hope they don't kick the old people out when they become a legit student organization.

... that I've been really bad about going to sleep at a decent hour all week.

I could blame pep band obligations,

but my inability to ignore e-mails, texts, etc. contributes as well.

... to twitter flirt with guys who are ten years younger.

That's OK, right?

... that my work inbox has 200+ emails in it.

I really need to go through and delete the ones I don't need anymore.

... to eliminate people from my life who only make me miserable.

Life's too short to keep those people around.

I'm not saying everyone around me has to be a cheerleader,

But a little kindness goes a long way.

... to realize I sometimes punish people because of my past.

Experiences I had when I was younger have really hurt my ability to trust people.

Getting past that means making myself vulnerable, and that's a really hard thing for me to do.

... to be so ready for a relaxing weekend.

Zumba, ISU basketball and lots of writing are on the agenda.

Maybe a little Sims 3 time too.

What's OK with you today?

Just friends?

2012-02-15T08:30:00.001-06:00

Can men and women ever truly be just friends?

I know how Harry and Sally feel about this.

I have always believed it's possible to have a platonic relationship with someone of the opposite sex. Why? Because, quite honestly, I've had a lot of them in my life.

But people always insist it isn't always a cut and dry friendship. It might end up that way, but at some point, one of the parties has entertained romantic feelings about the other one. That's the theory.

Is that true?

Hmm.

I confess I've had a few guy friends I crushed on at one point or another. Some of them know, and others never will. I never let my feelings ruin what, in some cases, have been much-needed friendships. But what about the others? The ones in whom I've never had a romantic interest? So does that mean they had those thoughts about me? I'm not going to let my mind go there.

I've been thinking about this a lot because it's part of the storyline in my novel. My two lead characters have each put the other in the friend zone at some point, but their feelings are still unclear. So as I'm writing, I'm wrestling with this theory in my head.

What do you think?

Can men and women be just friends?

WLJ: Loving me

2012-02-14T08:34:00.001-06:00

Happy Valentine's Day!!

Count me among those who used to refer to it as Singles Awareness Day. Even if you're single the whole year, for some reason this day is the day you feel MOST single. I understand completely. I have been there. I remember those days of watching all the flower deliveries come in, and go to everyone else. They happened in high school, college and then in the workplace. It kind of sucks.

Last year, I decided to adopt a new perspective and view it and use it as a day to love me and pamper myself. Sure, I can do that any day, but couples can also choose any day to say "I love you," yet Feb. 14 is reserved for it. So, this is my way of joining in the fun.

Here are five things I love about myself:
- My soft heart. Even though it comes with lots of tears, it also allows me to genuinely care about other people.
- My independence. I am fine going to movies, dinner, etc. by myself, and I've taken care of plenty of household repairs on my own.
- My eyes. They are my favorite physical feature even though my hair gets the most compliments.
- My loyalty. Someone really has to hurt me to lose my support.
- My passion for the things I love. Sports and music own my heart. I like how invested I am in my favorite teams and musicians.

Here are five things I'm going to do for myself today:
- Buy chocolate covered strawberries. (I actually did that last night, but it still counts.)
- Buy flowers.
- Manicure. Probably while I watch my Tuesday night TV.
- Have a glass of wine.
- Spend the evening offline.

In January, I joined the 10-pound Challenge hosted by Newlyweds on a Budget. We are one-third of the way through the challenge, and in that time, I am down 5 lbs.!! Wow. I really can't believe I've made that much progress. When the scale only drops a little bit each week, it's easy to lose sight of how that can add up.

Weight-loss goal: 40 lbs.
This week's progress: -1.4 lbs.
Progress to date: -19.2 lbs.
Non-scale victory: My new Zumba shoes arrived just in time for my Friday class. I've only gotten to try them out once, but so far, I really like them. I promise to offer a review after a few more classes.

I'm going to start linking up each Tuesday as well. It's always good to have support.

Blogger Link-Up

2012-02-13T14:05:00.001-06:00

I saw the beautiful and wonderful Neely was doing a networking link-up today. Several other of my favorite bloggers joined in, so I decided to get on board too. I only wish I had a button for my blog. Maybe I'll put that on my to-do list. Either way, allow me to introduce myself ...

Hi!!

My hair isn't this long anymore, but this is me.

I'm a 30-something who rarely feels her age. I live in Iowa, where I work in communications and marketing at my alma mater. I bought my first home this past year, so I'm still in the process of making it mine. (And I'm further convinced that the process never really ends.) I work for a living, and I live for Rangers baseball, live music, Iowa State athletics, writing and fun times with family and friends.

This blog is a mere 18 months old, and it's a mix of my thoughts and my favorite things. I try to be my authentic self on here without oversharing (I have a private blog for my most personal thoughts and feelings). That's why I called it "Unabashedly Me." It's been a wonderful outlet for me. I have a few theme days -- Mondays are music and Tuesdays are my weight-loss journey. I recently started joining What I'm Loving Wednesdays and It's OK Thursdays as well.

I also author a baseball blog (which is currently in off-season lull) and am hard at work on my third romance novel. In short, I am always writing or thinking about what to write next. That's just how my brain works. Weird, right?

I enjoy discovering new blogs through link-ups and recommendations. It makes my Google Reader more fun to open each day.

EDIT TO ADD: I now have a button! Thanks so much to Vicki.

Music Monday: Single Love

2012-02-13T08:00:00.009-06:00

Tomorrow is the day most couples love and many singles hate. I used to fall into that latter category, but I decided to adopt a new view of Feb. 14 last year, and now use it as a day to love and pamper myself. Besides, being single is actually pretty awesome. Sure, there are times it'd be nice to have someone special, but then I hear a story or talk to someone with relationship drama, and I realize I'm actually pretty lucky. So here are a few songs that pretty much sum up my feelings about being single.

Did I miss any?

Friday Favorites

2012-02-10T09:45:00.000-06:00

I spend a ton of time on Pinterest and Etsy, scoping out great quotes for my home.

I already have this one in my bedroom, and I love it. I look at it every morning. It's a good daily reminder.

But I want to add another meaningful quote somewhere in my house.

Here are some of the frontrunners:

Source: simplypix.tumblr.com via Micah on Pinterest

Source: julyanxavier.tumblr.com via Micah on Pinterest

Source: Uploaded by user via Micah on Pinterest

Source: i.imgur.com via Micah on Pinterest

Source: weheartit.com via Micah on Pinterest

Happy Friday everyone!

I'm looking forward to a fun weekend with friends and family.

It's OK Thursday

2012-02-09T09:11:00.000-06:00

It's OK ...

... that having an intuitive tell me about how I'd meet my future husband

made it easier to get over a stupid crush.

And by stupid, I'm referring to him and me.

He's stupid for not seeing how awesome I am,

and I'm stupid for wasting so much time and energy on him.

... that I'm thinking about getting another tattoo.

I have three, by the way.

... that I trust only two people in this world with my hair.

Steph and Bridget.

I am antsy to get my hair cut, but not unless I can get in with one of these two people.

... to be really excited about the impending arrival of my Zumba shoes.

My running shoes don't pivot and turn as easily, so I bought some Ryka Transitions.

I'm not saying the shoes will make me look better, but hopefully I'll be able to move better.

... that I had to corner one of my cats in a bathroom and trim the fur under her tail.

She continues to poop right outside the litter box.

She only does it about twice a week, and only when I'm home.

Clearly, she's trying to get my attention.

I decided to try trimming her fur, and see if it helps her feel better.

But the experience was traumatic for both of us.

She was scared, and I got bitten and scratched.

Poor baby Casey.

... to have a tough time deciding how I want to pamper myself on Valentine's Day.

Last year, I decided to stop hating on Feb. 14 and start using it as a day for me.

I don't want to spend a ton of money.

My nails are stubby, so a manicure is out.

I might buy myself flowers for my desk.

Hmm ... any other ideas?

What's OK with you this week?

What I'm Loving Wednesday

2012-02-08T09:18:00.001-06:00

I'm exhausted today. Last night was the first night this week I slept all the way through. On Sunday night and Monday night, I woke up around 4 a.m. feeling kind of sick. Ugh. Not a fun feeling. And each time, it took me forever to fall asleep. Last night's sleep was good though. I'm sure my fatigue is left over from the previous two days. I seem to remember hearing somewhere that sleep deprivation doesn't hit the next day, but the day after. Looks like I probably have another day of feeling like this. Yay.

Anyhow, I'm really glad Wednesday is here. I'm looking forward to my workout tonight and then new episodes of "Criminal Minds" and "Law & Order: SVU." Yeah, I'm easy like that. Ha ha.

And now, it's time to link up with Jamie for ...

I'm loving ...

... the response my boy, Tony Lucca, got on "The Voice" on Sunday night.

He sang Ray LaMontagne's "Trouble." And nailed it.

All four judges turned around.

I have been a fan of him for more than 20 years, and

I am so so so excited he's getting a chance to shine on a national stage.

If you liked him on "The Voice," please go like his page on facebook.

... the characters in the novel I'm writing.

They're all flawed, but lovable anyway.

Even the guy I created to be kind of an arrogant jerk is growing on me.

... this post about dating on WeLoveDates.

That infographic is amazing.

Anyone else want to move to Atlanta with me?

... the fact that I got rid of a ton of clothing last weekend.

Including some stuff from last summer that's too big(!!!).

I now have a cleaner and more organized closet.

... the graphic below.

Despite its grammatical errors, there's some good advice in there.

I might need to print it out and hang it somewhere in my house.

What are you loving this week?

WLJ: The good and bad of being more active

2012-02-07T08:14:00.001-06:00

I've always tried not to be completely sedentary. For the past few years, I've done various at-home workouts and running when the weather is nice. But my level of activity has definitely gotten a boost since I joined the fitness center in December. As with anything, there's good and bad, so I thought I'd share some of my observations here.

The bad

- Difficult to get on a machine sometimes.
With New Year's Resolutions and a Biggest Loser Competition going on, my gym has been packed. Good for their business, bad for me. I'm not a fan of the elliptical. At all. I much prefer a treadmill. It seems a lot of people do. Sometimes when I walk in, every single treadmill is occupied, leaving me to choose between an elliptical, a stair-stepper or a bike. Elliptical is my last choice, and sometimes a choice I must make. Blah.

- Poor gym etiquette by fellow fitness center users.
Early in January, there were two women who were CONSTANTLY texting while they were working out. I can barely remember to breathe, how do they have the energy to text as well? Well, we were definitely working out on different levels. But it was still annoying. Thankfully, I don't see them much anymore. Either they gave up or they go at different times now. But there are still people who don't wipe down the machines when they're done, which is not only unsanitary, it's just plain gross. I don't want to touch your sweat and spit, thanks.

- More laundry.
When I worked out at home, I could wear the same sports bra and shorts for a few days before they needed washing. Yeah, clearly I wasn't working out very hard. And also, since I didn't see anyone, I didn't care. The fitness center is a whole different story. I have plenty of tshirts because I'm a tshirt hoarder. That's not a problem. But I have just five sports bras, and after one workout, they're drenched in sweat and done until they can be washed. I had the same issue with workout pants and ended up having to buy two new pair (in a size SMALL!!!). It still doesn't feel like enough. I may have to bolster my workout wardrobe again soon.

The good

- Better sleep.
A good workout wears me out and by 9:30 most nights, I am ready to pass out. Sometimes, if I find something really engaging on TV, I can make it until 10 or maybe 10:30 on the weekend. But that's it. Gone are the days of me staying up until 11, 12 or later. And I feel like I'm getting a better quality of sleep. Of course, that could be because I'm sleeping more than eight hours a night. Ahhh...heaven.

- More energy.
Despite what I said above, I actually feel like I have more energy throughout the day lately. My morning coffee probably helps a little, but overall, I feel much more engaged and productive. This is good for me and my employer.

- Finding new fun workouts.
I went to Zumba with friends in Minneapolis last summer and loved it. I bought the Wii game, and it's fun, but the class is a whole other story. It's much more intense, and I love the music. Our instructor is pretty awesome too. I pretend I look like her when I'm doing the routines, even though I'm pretty sure I don't. I've also tried out kettlebell and Total Body Burn. So far, I've only stuck with kettlebell (in addition to Zumba) on a regular basis. It's a much different workout than I expected, and even though I'm still not great at it, I've made some progress. I would still like to try yoga and yogalates. My balance sucks, so I'd probably embarrass myself, but I'd give them a try.

- The endorphins!
How could I not mention these? I am so addicted to the post-workout high that I actually crave going to the gym. Sure, there are some days I think it would be so much nicer to go home and lounge and catch up on DVRed TV. But then I remember how awesome I feel when I'm done working out. So I go to the gym. And it's absolutely the right choice. I feel amazing when I'm done and the rest of the evening is mine (usually) to relax.

- The results.
The scale may not be showing a lot of progress, but I can see it when I look in the mirror and feel it when I pull on my clothes. I think I'm starting to look a little different, and I definitely feel different. It's hard to describe, but I feel so much better now that I'm working out harder and more often.

At least there's more good on this list than bad, right?

Weight-loss goal: 40 lbs.
This week's progress: -1.4 lbs.
Progress to date: -17.8 lbs.
Non-scale victory: I upgraded to the 18 lb. weight in kettlebell class. It's definitely more of a challenge. And that must have shown in my face last week, because at the end of the workout, the lady next to me decided I needed applause and a hug. Thanks, I think.

Music Monday: Superbowl Halftime Show Edition

2012-02-06T08:00:00.007-06:00

I didn't particularly care about the outcome of yesterday's game, but I knew everyone and their brother would be talking about it, so I turned on the Superbowl for background noise while I wrote, caught up on my Google Reader and chatted. The halftime show was quite a polarizer -- some people loved it, a few people liked it and a lot more people hated it. But that's pretty standard.

I don't think any act would make everyone happy. Someone on my timeline tweeted that he wanted to see Eric Church do the show. Um. No thanks. Someone else asked for Kanye and Jay-Z. Again, no thanks. I'd love to see my favorites out there on the national stage -- a little Matt Nathanson, Stephen Kellogg & the Sixers, Tony Lucca, etc. -- but a lot of people would hate that. Seriously. There is no sure crowd pleaser.

The Superbowl XXXV halftime show is and will probably always be my favorite. I think the reason is obvious (if you know me at all). That's right, it's because of *N Sync. And Britney. Oh, and Aerosmith, Nelly and Mary J. Blige were in it too. Amazing performance. And, for those who complained about Madonna's lip synching this weekend, my boys actually sing in this one. So there.

Friday Flashback: MMC Edition

2012-02-03T16:30:00.000-06:00

I've already mentioned how excited I am to see Tony Lucca on "The Voice" this weekend.

And my adoration of Ryan Gosling isn't a secret either.

I discovered both boys on "MMC" ("The New Mickey Mouse Club") in the early 90s. That show was a huge part of my life, and obviously had an influence on the careers I follow now. I can also credit that show, and the penpal circles it spawned, for some of my current friendships. Love my MMC girls.

I thought I'd share a few of my favorite musical numbers from the show.

Enjoy this little trip back to my childhood.

"M-I-C, See you real soon.

K-E-Y, Why? Because we like you.

M-O-U-S-E."

It's OK Thursday

2012-02-02T08:00:00.012-06:00

It's OK ...

... to be LESS THAN EXCITED about this year's Superbowl.

I don't care for either of the teams in it.

All the commercials will be online.

Just don't care about any of it.

... to be VERY EXCITED for the new season of "The Voice,"

which premieres after Sunday's big game.

Can't wait to see my boy, Tony Lucca, show off his vocal chops.

I've loved him for 21 years.

Time for the world to see why.

... to be LESS THAN EXCITED about the prediction of snow on Saturday.

I really wanted to go visit friends and see my friend's new baby.

It might have to wait.

Boo.

... to be VERY EXCITED that one of my big music obsessions shared

my Music Monday post on their twitter and facebook.

I could not believe my eyes when I saw it.

It totally made my day (and gave this little blog a ton of views).

... to be LESS THAN EXCITED excited about cleaning out a closet.

I really need to do it.

I've been putting it off for well over a month now.

Might be a good Sunday project.

... to be VERY EXCITED by some of the things an intuitive told me last weekend.

There are some rough patches in my near future.

But some really good things down the road.

I'm hopeful.

... to be LESS THAN EXCITED about kettlebell class tonight.

New year's resolutions and a contest have made the gym really busy lately.

But I know I'll be fine once I get there, and I love the endorphins.

... to be VERY EXCITED to see friends and family.

If the weather behaves, I'm going to get some quality time
with some of my favorite people next weekend.

What's OK with you this week?

A glimpse at my future

2012-02-01T08:00:00.017-06:00

For as long as I can remember, I've been fascinated by psychics. My favorite episodes of "The Montel Williams Show" always included Sylvia Browne. I love watching John Edwards' "Crossing Over" when I catch it on TV. I can't comprehend how their minds work, but I still think they're legit. Sure there are a few individuals who exploit and lie to make a few bucks, but there are plenty more who use their gift for good. I talked to one of them on Sunday night.

I was referred to an intuitive (this is the preferred term) by a blogger I've followed for a few years now. She wrote about her incredible experience in November, and I was curious. I contacted the blogger about it and asked about the cost and how to contact this person. The price was reasonable (and half of it goes to a great charity), so I stored the information away.

Over the past month, I've been feeling uncertain about some things in my life. I decided it was time to get in touch with the intuitive. She only works on referrals, and she requires two photos to make sure she can read someone before she gives them a reading. We made payment arrangements and set a phone date for Sunday night. I was anxious and excited all at once.

At first, I didn't know what to say, do or ask, but she's pretty easy to talk to and listen to, so she quickly set me at ease. She had some really interesting insights to share, and I'm glad I took notes because it was A LOT of information. It was really therapeutic though. She doesn't sugar coat anything. She tells it like it is. She warned me about some tough times ahead, but gave me hope in a few areas too.

I was a little overwhelmed with all of it. She said we could/should do a follow up/refresher in 2-3 weeks. I'm going to make some notes between now and then so I get the answers I need. All in all, it was really, really interesting. And I definitely have a certain sense of peace and a clarity about my life. That might sound silly, but it's my reality.

If you have a chance to talk with someone like this, I highly recommend it.

WLJ: Any loss is good, right?

2012-01-31T18:17:00.002-06:00

I'm kind of frustrated today.

I worked out really hard last week.

I stayed within my points.

But my efforts didn't show up on the scale.

Two tenths of a pound? Seriously?

Ugh.

I know this is how it goes sometimes. I've watched enough "Biggest Loser" to know about the ups and downs. But I'm still disappointed. And working hard not to be discouraged.

I have to remind myself that this is going to be a long process, especially with my PCOS working against me. I didn't put on this weight in a few months, and it's not going to come off in just a few months.

I WILL GET THERE.

Weight-loss goal: 40 lbs.
This week's progress: -0.2 lbs.
Progress to date: -16.4 lbs.
Non-scale victory: I am starting to feel a difference in how my clothes fit.

Music Monday: Stephen Kellogg & the Sixers - "In Front of the World"

2012-01-30T08:00:00.002-06:00

Stephen wrote this song for his younger brother. But I think it can resonate with a lot of people. It certainly does with me. Then again, there's not much Stephen writes that doesn't strike me. "In Front of the World" is off the "Glassjaw Boxer" album, which feels like it came out ages ago. There have been two albums since then, but there are no duds in the SK6ERS catalog. Can't wait to see these guys next month in Ames.

It's OK Thursday

2012-01-26T10:09:00.010-06:00

When I woke up this morning, I was so warm and cozy in my bed, I did not want to get up. Then I remembered it's Thursday, which means I'm thisclose to the weekend. Can't wait.

It's OK ...

... to be mildly attracted to Seth Rogen
and even more attracted to Joseph Gordon-Levitt.

Yep, I watched "50/50" last night.

... to want to listen to the same few songs over and over again,

but resist because everything I listen to is broadcasted to facebook via spotify.

... to be a little giddy that one of my teenage celeb crushes is following me on Twitter.

Hello, Thomas Ian Nicholas.

... to feel a little heartbroken over someone I never had.

Giving up on someone is hard, but sometimes it's better than holding on.

... to not like facial piercings but find Matt Nathanson's nose ring a little sexy.

You make my heart beat faster, indeed.

... to wonder if anyone really knows me at all.

Some know me better than others, but I still don't feel like anyone "gets" me.

... to choose nail polishes based on the name of the shade.

Hello "Eternal Optimist." (Not my hand.)

... be excited about getting a psychic reading this weekend.

Referred by a friend. I'm anxious to hear what she says.

... to just want to fill this entry with more eye candy.

Hey girl.

What's OK with you?

(Go ahead and pretend Ryan is asking you that. I just did.)

What I'm Loving Wednesday

2012-01-25T17:01:00.000-06:00

Linking up with Jamie

I'm loving ...

... the random compliments I got from strangers today.

I needed that boost.

... that I accidentally forgot my phone at home during lunch.

I felt a bit disconnected, and that was actually a good thing.

... all the reading I got done last weekend.

I've been so focused on writing these past few months, I've kind of put my reading aside.

I shouldn't do that.

... Chobani's new apple cinnamon yogurt.

So good.

... my incredible support system.

You truly do find out who your friends are when you're not feeling like yourself.

... that I get to see my favorite baseball boys in 49 days.

Woot!!

What are you loving this week?

WLJ: Emotional connection

2012-01-24T12:29:00.000-06:00

I've mentioned this before on here, but I strongly believe there is a tie between emotions and weight-loss. I found a few articles on the interwebz that support my theory:

Weight Loss, Emotions Go Hand in Hand
Gain Control of Emotional Eating

I went through a bunch of emotions late last week. Some people eat when they're stressed. I'm the opposite. I'm a non-eater when I'm stressed. So over the weekend, I really didn't stick to my meal plan because I was too busy dealing with my thoughts and emotions. I didn't go over my points, but I didn't eat as many fruits and vegetables as I should have, and I'm pretty sure I didn't drink half of the water I should have on Saturday.

Because of all that, I wasn't surprised to hold steady this week. In fact, I'm actually happy with that.

Best of all, I know last week is now in the past and I can start a new week now. I'm figuring out ways to handle my emotions and stress in a way that they won't jeopardize my goals or relationships.

I'm a work-in-progress, kids. Probably always will be.

Weight-loss goal: 40 lbs.
This week's progress: +/- 0 lbs.
Progress to date: -16.2 lbs.
Non-scale victory: I did a ton of baking these past few days, but limited how many of the treats I ate. If you knew how good my house smelled, you'd realize that's a pretty significant victory.

Music Monday: Birthday Boy Bonus

2012-01-23T12:42:00.005-06:00

You get double posts from me today. With good reason. Today is the birthday of one of my very favorite musicians ...

Mr. Tony Lucca

2002

2004

2010

I've been a fan of his for more than 20 years. I finally got to meet him and see him live in 2002. I've met and seen him several times since then, and I'm still a little starstruck every single time. And I'm not being cliche when I say I've enjoyed watching him evolve as a singer, musician and songwriter. I truly have. In a few weeks, the whole nation will get to see his talent when he appears on "The Voice." I'm excited for him. He deserves this.

In honor of his day of birth, here are a few of my favorite songs by him ...

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Music Monday - Country Flashback

2012-01-23T08:34:00.000-06:00

A friend texted me Saturday while she was cleaning her place. She said she was listening to an old CD and Kellie Coffey's "Texas Plates" came on. Wow. Really brought back memories of cruising town and chasing a few boys (with Iowa plates) back in high school. Who knew I'd have Texas plates someday? (I still have one of them, by the way.) Or that I'd have actual connections to the Lone Star State? Hmm. Life is funny sometimes.

Anyway, I went to find the video on youtube, and that lead me to click on a few in the sidebar as well. I don't listen to much country these days and I forgot how much I loved a few of these songs.

This guy was my first love in country music. Absolutely adored him. And this song.

Um, I definitely made up alternate lyrics to the chorus of this song in high school (to fit my crush at the time, of course). I'm not going to tell you what those lyrics were.

I used to think this was the SWEETEST song ever written. It's still pretty great.

I still think this song was written about me.

Or at least, I keep hoping someone hears it and it reminds them of me. :)

I adore SheDaisy.

This was one of Amy's favorite groups.

We used to blast this and sing along on the way to and from Rangers games.

Sigh. I miss her.

And this song definitely still hits home quite often.

This one's not old, but it's probably one of my favorite recent songs.

Thanks for going on that little musical journey with me.

Happy Monday everyone!

Sometimes there are no words ...

2012-01-20T12:54:00.000-06:00

... at least none I want to share.

Instead, I'll treat you to a glorious John Mayer song combination. Two great songs. In one video. Awesome.

It's OK Thursday

2012-01-19T09:12:00.000-06:00

It's Thursday!! Yay!! The weekend is almost here!!

That's a lot of bangpoles (aka exclamation marks), but I think they're warranted. As I mentioned yesterday, I have absolutely no plans for this weekend (except for Zumba on Saturday and a Skype date with my best friend on Sunday). I cannot wait for a little down time.

OK. So, I'm kidding myself if I think I'll be lazy all weekend.

I'll probably find plenty to keep me busy. Now that I have my recipe page templates and a printer, I will probably start organizing my recipes. I also want to work on organizing my kitchen a little better, so I might be pulling everything out of the cupboards and then putting it back in a different format. I've been living in my house for seven months, but I still don't feel like I'm using the space in there as best I can. So, yeah, I'll probably be busy. But productivity feels good.

Anyway, on to ...

It's OK ...

... to be quite fond of someone who has no idea.

These crushes are my favorite.

There's no risk and no rejection.

... to get annoyed by people who are texting while they're working out.

Seriously.

If you have the energy/time to text, you're not doing it right.

... to have breakfast food for meals that are not in the morning.

Brinner (breakfast for dinner) is one of my favorites.

... to be putting off doing my Mary Kay inventory.

I know I need to do it for tax purposes, but I don't wanna.

... to get annoyed when people make fun of things I like.

I don't judge the things they like (that maybe I don't enjoy),

why am I not returned the favor.

I wish I'd ended on a more positive note.

I swear I'm in a really good mood this week.

Oh well.

What's OK with you?

What I'm Loving Wednesday

2012-01-18T12:03:00.000-06:00

Linking up with Jamie

I'm loving ...

... the short work week.

I have no plans this weekend, and I'm pretty eager to get to that.

... the music of Anna Nalick, Kate Voegele, Natasha Bedingfield, Michelle Branch, Sara Haze, Serena Ryder, Alexa Wilkinson, Daphne Willis, etc.

Female singer-songwriters are just suiting my mood this week, I guess.

... looking at flights and details for all of my spring trips.

They're all centered around baseball. Go figure.

... the sense of peace I have this week.

I had a bit of an epiphany on Sunday.

... that the Rangers Award Show will be on TV Thursday night.

The DVR is set. I miss my boys.

... dreams that make you smile for the rest of the day.
Seriously. It's awesome and ridiculous all at once.

... the new necklace my friend, Meg, made for me.

Isn't it gorgeous?

What are you loving?

WLJ: Listen to your body

2012-01-17T12:19:00.003-06:00

I had a scary moment last Thursday when I was working out.

I thought I could handle kettlebell and total body burn back-to-back. Each class is 30 minutes long. No big deal, right?

Wrong.

Kettlebell went fine. Then, halfway through total body burn, I noticed I was lightheaded, and when we laid down to do chest flies, I realized the ceiling was spinning. I decided this was not a good thing. So I sat up and took a few breaths while the class went on to the next exercise. The trainer asked if I was ok, and I told him I was just a little dizzy. He told me to take a break and get a drink of water. As I got up, I could hardly walk straight. I felt drunk. I didn't get my equilibrium back before the class was over.

I have never felt like that. And I hope I don't again. I recovered, but ... wow ... I definitely overdid it. I felt really embarrassed, but the trainer said he was glad I recognized I wasn't feeling well. He said he's seen a lot of people try and keep going and ending up fainting or passing out, which isn't good for anyone. And another woman I talked to said she had a similar experience when she tried to do too many classes at once.

Yep, I'm gonna slow down. I will probably continue with kettlebell and total body burn, but instead of doing them back-to-back, I'll do one on Tuesday nights and one on Thursday.

Bottom line -- listen to your body.

Weight-loss goal: 40 lbs.
This week's progress: -2.6 lbs.
Progress to date: -16.2 lbs.
Non-scale victory: I have not had any alcohol in two weeks. It's not that I drink a ton, but I usually have a beer or a glass of wine at some point during the week. Not lately though. I haven't even really wanted it, not even when I was in my brother's bar Sunday night with an option of free beer.

Music Monday: Ingram Hill - "Why Don't You"

2012-01-16T18:53:00.001-06:00

I love love love these guys and spent a lot of time listening to them in the car the past few days. I don't even think I could pick FIVE favorite songs from their collection. I like them all. But I decided to share this one today.

Waking up, literally and figuratively

2012-01-15T11:29:00.000-06:00

I've been going through some rough times lately. Facebook friends and twitter followers have probably noticed this. I was unsuccessfully trying to block out negative words and thoughts by clinging to positive quotes I found on Pinterest (and sharing them).

But then ... today, I woke up today with a whole new perspective on things.

People can judge me all they want,

but I'm not going to let them define me.

Maybe it was quality time with a good friend.
Maybe it was a good night's sleep (99 percent sleep efficiency, according to my fitbit).
Maybe it's a symptom of being older.

Whatever it is, I'll take it. And I'll take the new perspective.

So what if some guy thinks I'm "not a hot girl"?
There's probably someone who does.

So what if someone thinks I'm "chunky"?
There's probably someone else who thinks I'm pretty fit.

So what if people think I'm "not normal" because of some of my life decisions?
Someone else might think those decisions make me unique and special.

So what if someone doesn't like me?
There are definitely plenty of people who do.

Even though it's in my nature to want to be liked by everyone, at some point, I have to realize that's just not realistic. No matter how nice, kind, thoughtful, fun or generous I am, there will always be someone who doesn't like me. Not an easy lesson, but that's the way life goes sometimes.

The key is remembering that for every hater I have, I also have at least two fans. And last I checked, 2-1 was a winning score (and a pitcher's duel at that ... ha ha).

Currently ...

2012-01-13T08:36:00.000-06:00

Snagged this from Emily!

Currently ...

current book:

current playlist:

Todd Carey on Spotify

current color:

current food:

current favorite show(s):
"The Biggest Loser," "How I Met Your Mother," "Glee," "Grey's Anatomy,"

"Private Practice," "One Tree Hill," "The Bachelor."

And this isn't even everything I DVR. Yeah, I watch a lot of TV.

current needs:
A little down time.

current triumphs:

Making progress on my novel,

seeing numbers on the scale go down.

current banes of my existence:

Planks and burpees.

current celebrity crush:

Yep, he's still my number one until further notice.

current #1 blessing:

Good friends who help me keep my head up,

music (always!) and the knowledge that baseball is on the way.

current indulgence:

I made some of these last weekend ... so good.

current outfit:
khaki pants,

white long sleeved t-shirt under a blue and white cowlneck sweater,

brown belt,

brown boots.

current excitement:

Being lazy and catching up on DVR tonight,

lunch with a friend tomorrow

current mood:
calm

current favorite quote or verse:

"Nobody has it easy. Everybody has problems whether it’s friends, family, school, money, food, or even shelter. You don’t know what they go through. Nobody is perfect, nobody deserves to be to perfect. So before you start judging, criticizing, or mocking, remember everybody is fighting their own war."

((One of my facebook friends posted that today, and it is so true.))

current favorite app:
Tweetdeck

current favorite product:

Mary Kay Foundation Primer

It makes my skin feel so smooth and

helps my makeup last longer during the day.

Happy Friday everyone!

It's OK Thursday

2012-01-12T08:57:00.004-06:00

I can't believe it's Thursday already. Don't groan at me. I'm sure most of you are wishing the work week would move faster, but ... for me, it moved plenty fast this week.

With my workouts and pep band, I've been insanely busy. I'm ready for a slowdown this weekend. Although, I'm not sure how much of one I'll get. Saturday, I have Zumba and then I'm meeting my friend Jaci for Mexican food and girl time. She's moving to NYC in less than two weeks, and while I'm really excited for her, I'm really going to miss getting to see her on a regular basis. Monday, I'm going to try and go get some medical tests done and then I'll workout and there's a basketball game (pep band) that night. So Sunday might be my only lazy day ... which is good, since there are actually football games I care about on TV that day. Go Pack Go!

Anyhow, enough of that. Let's get to ...

It's OK ...

... to have a private blog (or two) where I go to vent the things I can't or don't want to post publicly.

... to start thinking about where I want to be in my life in five years.

... to be worried that those plans might not meet the approval of some people I know.

... to unfriend or hide a facebook pal who posts obnoxiously negative and judgmental updates. I get that people go through rough patches, but seriously ... enough is enough.

... to trade my morning makeup routine for moisturizer and mascara when I'm just too tired to care.

... to be amused when people meet me for the first time and are surprised that I am a female. Having a boy's name has provided a lifetime of those moments.

... to feel sometimes as if no one knows me at all.

I ended on a deep one. Sorry. It's been one of those weeks. I've been doing a lot of thinking.

What I'm Loving Wednesday

2012-01-11T12:43:00.000-06:00

Last week when I did this, I didn't notice the little blog address in the lower right corner. My apologies to that blogger. I'm fixing that this week.

Linking up with Jamie!

I'm loving ... that my Spring Training travel plans are slowly becoming more real.

I've been dreaming about going to Rangers spring training for years,

and I'm finally going ... in 66 days!

I'm loving ... Jennifer from Oklahoma City on "The Bachelor."

Number one, she's a redhead.

Number two, she doesn't seem crazy.

And for those two reasons, I'm kinda hoping she gets the boot.

She doesn't deserve to stay lumped in with all that drama.

I'm loving ... random messages from friends.

The internet can be a real downer sometimes,

but it's also fun when someone randomly sends you a message or

posts on your wall ... just to let you know they're thinking of you.

It makes me smile.

I'm loving ... that I have a three-day weekend coming up.

Seriously.

I cannot wait.

I'm loving ... that I am actually making progress on my new novel.

I haven't had a lot of time to write though,

and I'm hoping to use some of my weekend on that.

I'm loving ... Zumba class.

I went to my first last Saturday, and it was so much fun.

It was also a REALLY good workout.

I'm hooked.

I can't wait until this Saturday.

And that's what I'm loving this week.

WLJ: Changing habits

2012-01-10T08:32:00.004-06:00

Last week was my first back to work after a glorious holiday break, which began at noon on Dec. 22 and ended at 8 a.m. on Jan. 2. I know a lot of people still had that Monday off, but I had no right to whine about that. Not with all of last week off. So I kept my mouth shut. I was kind of ready to get back in a normal routine anyway. That might sound odd, but I truly am a creature of habit. Routines bring me peace.

That said, this week was a complete departure from most weeks past. I'm changing some things in my lifestyle as I continue to strive toward being healthy ...

- Earlier bedtime. I used to stay up until eleven, midnight ... or later. Every night this week, I've been in bed no later than 10:30. Last night I was so tired, I crawled under the covers at 9:45. My body still hasn't adapted to these changes. It takes me a good while to fall asleep. But I still get a more restful sleep (for the most part), and I don't have as much trouble with my alarm in the morning. Win! ((Confession: I'm not sure how I'll keep this going once baseball season starts.))

- Workout 4-5 times a week. Last week, I went to the gym on Monday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday. I took Tuesday off because I was dealing with nasty computer issues. I didn't sleep well that night. Lesson learned. I made up for that night off by checking out the Zumba class on Saturday morning. It was so much fun!! The perfect way to spend a Saturday morning.

- Better breakfast. I usually just eat yogurt or oatmeal for breakfast. I need to start doing more in the mornings. I've been adding a piece of fruit this week. Thursday, for example, I had cinnamon toast on whole wheat bread, a banana and greek yogurt. So good. And it kept me full most of the morning. I had a handful of almonds for a mid-morning snack, but I wasn't starving at lunch time. I want to try doing more green smoothies. I tried to do one Friday --- mixed and blended it Thursday night. But I put it in the freezer to keep, and naturally, it was too solid for Friday morning consumption. Fail. I'll try again this week.

- Stop with the fast food. In the past, on days I've been starving (read: not good about breakfast), the drive thru was much more appealing than going home and waiting until I could prepare something. Those days need to be less frequent. See what I did there? I'm not cutting out fast food entirely, but I need to cut it down to one or two times a month instead of one or two times a week.

I managed all of these very well for the first week. I've heard you have to keep a routine for three weeks before it becomes a TRUE routine. So we'll see how I do.

For more motivation, I joined the 10-pound Challenge hosted by Newlyweds on a Budget. Lose 10 pounds in 12 weeks, win $$$. Are you in?

Why not?

Weight-loss goal: 40 lbs.
This week's progress: -1.4 lbs.
Progress to date: -13.6 lbs.
Non-scale victory: I stepped a bit out of my comfort zone and went to that Zumba class on Saturday. I loved it. I can't wait to go back this week.

Music Monday: Kelly Clarkson - "You Can't Win"

2012-01-09T07:58:00.003-06:00

After a week of going to bed by 10:30, it was a real challenge to stay up late enough for "Saturday Night Live" this weekend. But it was worth it to see Kelly Clarkson perform. Love love love her.

The only thing I didn't love was the flood of comments about Kelly's weight on my facebook and twitter timelines. From men and women .... but mostly men. Ugh. So ridiculous.

Sometimes it's fun to imagine what our world might be like if we spent more energy building each other up instead of tearing each other down. But that'll never happen. Ever.

Anyhow ...

Kelly didn't perform this song Saturday night, but it's one of my favorites on the album. I relate to it far too well.

Getting organized in the kitchen

2012-01-07T13:36:00.000-06:00

I love to bake and cook ... when I have/make time. I am constantly bookmarking and printing out recipes online, mostly from Pinterest or Iowa Girl Eats.

This is what my recipe collection looks like right now ...

Who can find anything in there, right?

I started thinking about how I wanted to organize them. I could go the traditional route with recipe cards and an accompanying box. But I can be kind of messy in the kitchen, so I decided a binder with sheet protectors is probably the way to go. I stopped at a stationery store today and got the first bit of supplies.

Now, I just have to decide what kind of paper the recipes are going to be displayed on.
Etsy to the rescue!
I found three options I'm interested in ...

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All three designs come as a set of PDFs I can then print on my own.
So I'll have to find a place to print them.

What do you think?
How do you keep your recipes organized?

It's finally Friday!

2012-01-06T08:45:00.000-06:00

What a long week.

OK, so I know it was the same length as any other, but it sure felt longer.

Part of it was returning after the holiday break. And part of it was me settling into a new routine.

Overall, it was a good week though.

The highlights?

::: The arrival of a new baby girl! Congrats to my friends, Heather and Coltan. I can't wait to meet little Carley.

::: Successfully working out every night except Tuesday. But I'm going tonight (and probably tomorrow), so it's fine. I'm kind of addicted to my gym.

::: The return of new TV show episodes. "Grey's Anatomy" made me bawl like a baby (I'm such a sap). And I'm so happy to have Bob Harper and Dolvett on my TV again on Tuesday nights.

::: Hitting nearly 60 degrees on Thursday. This is Iowa. And it's January. That doesn't happen.

::: Neil Patrick Harris on "The Price is Right." Yep, I totally DVRed it. I adore him.

::: Finding "Just Dance 3" at the local RedBox. I'm definitely having a solo weekend dance party. Woot!

::: Discovering some new blogs through my link up on Thursday. I love adding to my google reader!!

I'm really looking forward to my weekend. I plan to spend some time on Pinterest exploring some options for a project I want to do (more on this tomorrow), play some Just Dance 3 and catch up on some of the TV I recorded but didn't get to watch this week. It's going to be grand.

What was awesome about your week?

What are your weekend plans?

It's OK Thursday

2012-01-05T08:22:00.000-06:00

This is my first time linking up for this, so be gentle.
I've seen a few other bloggers do it, and it always looks like fun, so I'm joining in.

It's OK ...

... to have a salad for dinner just so you can enjoy a glass of wine with your trashy TV.

I must have wine when I watch "The Bachelor/Bachelorette."

***

It's OK ...
... to still have a massive crush on a past "Bachelorette" contestant.
Chris D., you are still my favorite. And you were too good for Ashley.

***

It's OK ...

... to be nervous about pep band practice. Yeah, I've decided to join a student/faculty/staff pep band for the remainder of basketball season. I haven't played my flute for more than 20 min. at a time in at least 10 years. Our first rehearsal is tonight. Yikes.

***

It's OK ...

... to already be counting down to baseball season.

College football is over (for me), and even though I'm mildly interested in the NFL playoffs, baseball (mostly my Rangers) still evokes the most passion from me.

***

It's OK ...

... to have three cat calendars. Two were gifts, and, yeah, I bought the other one.
Come at me, bro!

***

It's OK ...
... to have only written 3K words in my novel since NaNoWriMo ended. I mean, there were holidays in there. I had stuff to do. I swear I'm not flaking out on Luke and Cori and this book. I promise.

Happy Thursday everyone!
It's supposed to get up into the upper 50s today (virtually unheard of in Iowa),
and we're one day closer to the weekend.
I have a lot to smile about.

What I'm Loving Wednesday

2012-01-04T12:39:00.002-06:00

One of my favorite bloggers, Rachel, writes about this every week. I might start stealing it every now and then. I don't think she'll mind. By the way, you should definitely check out her blog -- she's a fun, sweet, sports-loving girl with a lot to say.

I'm loving ... my new fitbit ultra.

I have wanted one since they first came out, but since they were new and I wasn't sure how well they would work, I couldn't justify the cost. A friend of mine has had one for a year or so now and has nothing but good things to say about them, so I dove in. My friend, Jaci, bought one too, so I have a feeling we'll have a bit of a competition going on. Ha. I figure it's just one more way to keep me motivated to stay active.

I'm loving ... the fact that some of my shows are returning.

"The Bachelor" and "The Biggest Loser" started up with new seasons this week. "Grey's Anatomy" and "Private Practice" are back tomorrow night. Yay!! Since I'm only mildly interested in the college bowl games going on, it's nice to finally have new TV to watch. Yeah, I might be a bit of a TV addict. You can ask my DVR.

I'm loving ... the new Tyrone Wells song, "Freedom."

I got it a few weeks ago when I pre-ordered his new CD, and I can't stop listening to it. If the single is any indication, the whole CD is going to be fantastic. Then again, I expect nothing less of Mr. Wells.

I'm loving ... the fact that there is no snow or ice on the ground right now.

It's odd for Iowa to be brown at the beginning of January, but I'm not complaining. I know the white and freezing stuff will come eventually and cause enough problems, but there's no need to rush it.

What are you loving?

WLJ: Are you doing it for you or the moment?

2012-01-03T12:21:00.000-06:00

Happy New Year! I know I'm not the only one trying to get more fit right now. Losing weight is one of the most popular new year's resolutions. But there's a reason I don't set resolutions -- I never stick with them. And even though I love New Year's and think of it as a clean slate, I think everyday is as good as Jan. 1 to decide you want to make a change. But unless you set small goals to achieve a larger goal, you likely won't follow through.

I discovered this post last week, and it really made me stop and think.

Do It For Me ... Not the Moment! (Erika of Body by E)

I plan to bookmark it as a reminder of why I want to get more fit. I'm not giving up my deadlines or goals, but ultimately, I need to remember why I'm really doing this. It's not about looking good for my spring vacations, next summer or the next wedding I'll be attending. In fact, it's not just about looking good, it's about feeling better and being healthier. It's about ME.

I had my last session with my trainer last week, but I've continued to return to the fitness center. Largely, I do the things she showed me. Fortunately, none of our three sessions were exactly alike, so I'm able to change it up a little so I don't get bored and my body doesn't get complacent. I want to try some of the classes this week, so we'll see how that goes. So far, I really like the fitness center. Everyone is friendly, and I don't feel overly self-conscious (although some of that is still there). I would like to continue my membership and possibly even sign up for a few personal training sessions a month ... just to see if I'm doing enough on my own. But so far, I'm happy with the way things are going.

Weight-loss goal: 40 lbs.
This week's progress: +/- 0 lb.
Progress to date: -12.2 lbs.
Non-scale victory: In the past week, I've worked out everyday except Friday and Saturday.

Music Monday: Andy Grammer - "Ladies"

2012-01-02T12:49:00.003-06:00

I should have included this man on my top albums of 2011 because his self-titled is freaking awesome. I particularly love this song.

Looking ahead

2012-01-01T16:56:00.000-06:00

Ahh.

A New Year.

We made it to another one!

I know it's just the turn of a calendar page, but it always feels like so much more. To me, it's a clean slate. A chance for new beginnings, even if it's really just an arbitrary date.

As mentioned in two lengthy posts, 2011 was awesome. But 2012 has plenty of promise.

Here are a few things I'm already planning to do:
- Go to Rangers Spring Training in Surprise, AZ, where I will meet up with Lacy and possibly the only two Angels fans I like, Jen and Mayra.
- Go to Rangers Opening Weekend, which includes meeting several members of my dysfunctional baseball family.
- Visit two new ballparks -- Camden Yards and Nationals Park.
- Attend the wedding of one of my college roommates.
- Run at least five 5Ks.
- Start on a screened-in porch addition to my house.

I would also really like to do these things:
- Go to the All-Star Game in Kansas City.
- Go to a Chiefs game at Arrowhead.
- Put new carpet in my bedroom.
- Finish at least one of the novels I have in the works.
- Visit and tour the Leinenkugel Brewery.

I don't really do New Year's Resolutions, but I usually choose two or three things that I want to try for the first time in the year ahead. Here are the three I've chosen for 2012:

1. Buy a drink for a cute guy. Yeah, I'm carrying this one over from last year. I have no trouble getting a guy to buy me a drink, but I'd like to try being the buyer for once.

2. Keep a plant alive. I have the worst luck with green things. This does not please me or my green-thumbed ancestors. I need to work on this. Anyone have a suggestion for an easy plant to maintain?

3. Ride a bike. OK, so I've ridden a bike before, but it's been YEARS. The community in which I live is pretty bike-friendly, so I'm thinking I need to get some wheels and go for a ride again when the weather gets nice.

I'm also going to continue on working toward a healthier me, but I'll talk more about that on Tuesday.

Bonus NYE Entry

2011-12-31T20:20:00.000-06:00

I was going to go to a friend's house tonight, but after an all-night stomach ache and a poor night of sleep, I decided to stay in. So, I'm hanging with my parents watching Auburn/Virginia and sometimes "House Hunters." There's just not much on TV. But I guess they figure most people aren't watching. Meh.

Anyhow, I spotted this survey on another blog and decided to do it as well ...

1. What did you do in 2011 that you’d never done before?
Ran an entire 5K (times two), went to Vegas, was in a wedding

2. Did you keep your new years’ resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
I don't really do resolutions.

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
Several friends became parents in 2011, but no one that I'm super close to.

4. Did anyone close to you die?
My best friend's dad

5. What countries and/or states did you visit?

Minnesota (a lot), Wisconsin, California, Nevada, Maryland and D.C.

6. What would you like to have in 2012 that you lacked in 2011?
More confidence. No less than two people this year told me I don't give myself enough credit. So I need to work on that.

7. What date from 2011 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
11-11-11 ... my best friend got married :)

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
Buying my first home.

9. What was your biggest failure?
I think I let a few people down.

10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
Nothing significant.

11. What was the best thing you bought?
My house

12. What was the best thing someone gave you?
Geez. I don't even know where to start.

13. Were you lucky in love or lucky in cards?
Neither.

14. Where did most of your money go?
Travel.

15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
Rangers baseball (until it made me really, really, really sad)

16. What song will always remind you of 2011?
"Moves Like Jagger"

17. Compared to this time last year, are you:
Happier? Yes
Older or wiser? Both, I hope
Richer or poorer? Richer

18. What do you wish you’d done more of?
Running. I wish I'd done more than two 5Ks.

19. What do you wish you’d done less of?
Worrying about what other people think.

20. How will you be spending Christmas?
I spent it at my parents' house.

21. How will you be spending New Year’s Eve?
I'm at my parents' house again.

22. Did you fall in love in 2011?
No

23. Did you fall out of love in 2011?
No

24. What was your favorite TV program?
"Friday Night Lights" came to an end, so I'll say that one.

25. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?
Nope.

26. What was the best book you read?
"The Help"

27. What was your greatest musical discovery?
We The Kings (Thanks, John)

28. What did you want and get?
A new job/adventure.

29. What did you want and not get?
A Rangers World Series title.

30. What was your favorite film of this year?
"Crazy, Stupid, Love"

31. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
I didn't do much on my actual birthday, but the weekend prior, I had drinks with friends.

32. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
The Rangers winning the World Series

33. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2011?
I don't think I have a fashion concept.

34. What kept you sane?
Friends.

35. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
My Ryan Gosling admiration grew, for sure.

36. What political issue stirred you the most?
Ugh. Don't want to talk politics here.

37. Who did you miss?
I miss a lot of people.

38. Who was the best new person you met?
Shay ;)

39. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2011:
Never explain yourself -- your friends don't need it, and your enemies won't believe it anyway.

40. Quote(s) or song lyric(s) that sums up your year:
"I don't know if I'll make it, but watch how good I'll fake it."

Looking back at 2011 ... Part II

2011-12-31T10:54:00.000-06:00

Where did we leave off? Oh, right ... July.

July started with the continuation of Summerfest. The Brice girls and I took in our share of live music, including REO Speedwagon, Styx, Better Than Ezra, Third Eye Blind, Los Lobos, Los Lonely Boys, Fitz and the Tantrums and Maroon 5. So awesome. I continued the music indulgence with a little Matt Nathanson, $nack$ (an awesome Des Moines-based band), Ingram Hill (FINALLY! After four years of waiting to see them!) and Cowboy Mouth. I also turned 31 in this month.

Adam Levine and Maroon 5 got the month started right.

In August, I hit the road again. Or rather the air. I traveled to sunny California to see my beloved Rangers and a new ballpark. I also got to (finally) meet Lacy after about seven years of online friendship. It was every bit as awesome as it sounds. We went to an Express/River Cats (AAA) game on Friday night and two Rangers/As games on Saturday and Sunday. We saw three wins. Clearly, we are good luck. Before Sunday's game, I got a baseball from Rangers' pitching coach, Mike Maddux. Totally made my trip. As did Lacy, who was a fantastic hostess. I can't wait to hang out with her more in 2012 (more on that tomorrow). After all that fabulousness, the month ended on a bit of a sad note. My best friend's father passed away after a few weeks in the hospital and another week in hospice. Even though we could all see the end coming, it didn't make it any easier. My heart goes out to Jamie, and, at the same time, I admire her strength. Rest in peace, Walter, you are missed.

Lacy and me cheering on our boys at O.co Coliseum in Oakland.

In September, I remained on the go. I traveled to Ames a few times to watch my second sports love -- the Iowa State Cyclones. I was in the stadium for the thrilling triple overtime win over in-state rivals, Iowa. Unbelievable. I also got two more helpings of Tim Stop music that weekend, which made for three on the year. Not nearly enough, but I'll have to deal with it, I guess. Later in the month, I traveled to Las Vegas for a bachelorette weekend with another bestie, Bruna. I landed just as my Rangers won their second straight American League West title and was in Vegas for less than 48 hours. In that time, I did minimal gambling, saw a Chippendales show (and liked it more than I thought I would), rode the rollercoaster at NY NY and ate delcious food at every turn. Oh, and I also got to spend lots of quality time with Bruna and her love, Shay.


Me and Alicia after the big Cyclone win over the Hawkeyes.

Hot ladies ready for a night out in Vegas.

In October, my travels continued. But they were all road trips. Lots of them. Mostly to Ames for football and Des Moines for my second 5K of the month. That's right. I ran two 5Ks this month. I was so proud of myself. And also regretful that I didn't do any more races in 2011. That'll change in the coming year. Also, I was pretty busy watching baseball this month (as I had been since April) as my Rangers made their way through the playoffs, advancing to the World Series for the second consecutive year. And, for the second consecutive year, they lost and broke my baseball heart. They were in it longer this year than they were in 2010, but still fell short. And I'm still not ready to talk about Game 6. I suspect I never will be.

In November, I barely had time to breathe. I spent a week in Washington, D.C. and Baltimore for the wedding of Shay and Bruna. In addition to the main event, I got to spend a whole day with a college friend, Ellen, and a few days with my other bestie, Nikki. I was honored to be a part of the wedding party (as Bruna's maid of honor), and I won't soon forget that week's events. One week after the wedding, I hosted Ernie Halter in a special living room performance. I had seven guests for the private event, and I think they all enjoyed it. I know I did. Oh, and I also wrote a 50,000-word novel (or at least start of one) during this month. I haven't written much since then, but I plan to continue it.

Just married!

In December, I stayed home a little more -- much to the relief of my furry children and my bank account.

All in all, 2011 was a great year. Recounting it for this blog has made me realize just how fantastic it was. And if I ever complain about my life being boring, please point me to these two posts. My life is FAR from boring.

Finally, it's time to name the winner of my Christmas Eve Giveaway, which is a copy of the first book I wrote as well as a $10 gift card to a book retailer of the winner's choice. I asked readers to tell me what they're most looking forward to in 2012. I then used a random number generator to select the winner, and that person is Angela!!

Congrats!! E-mail me or message me on facebook so we can get your prize to you.

Tomorrow, I'll tell you about my hopes and plans for 2012.

Looking back at 2011 ... Part I

2011-12-30T08:56:00.003-06:00

2011 was an amazing year for me. Sure, there were some downs, but the ups outweighed them. Let's look back, shall we ...

In January, I accepted a new job at my alma mater. After nine years in the newspaper industry, including five in the same town, I was burned out. I wanted a new challenge and a change of scenery. OK, so going back to the town where I went to college isn't exactly new scenery, but it was still a good change.

In February, I packed up and moved two hours north to start my new job. Most of my stuff stayed in boxes and tubs since I was in temporary housing. But this wouldn't last long. Toward the end of the month, after a week off, I actually reported to my new job and began to make the transition from writing for news to writing for marketing.

In March, I began the process of buying my first house. It was a bit of a forced purchase, I must confess. Lack of rental properties in my new location (especially furry children-friendly rental properties) forced me into the realm of home ownership. This is not a bad thing, and, in fact, I think it's turned out just fine. I looked at about nine different houses. Ironically, the one I chose was the first one I looked at. I wasn't even interested in it when I first saw it because I was convinced I needed a basement (hello! I live in the Midwest!). I put in an offer on another house across town, but the sellers weren't willing to come down into my range, so I had to re-evaluate my priorities. It was a blessing, really. That other house would have been too much.

Mine, all mine!

In April, I moved into my new house. My first house. All 1,008 square feet belong to me. As does the one-car attached garage and the lot surrounding the house. Three bedrooms all for me. OK, so one is for the cats, but the other two are all mine. It was pretty exhilirating to sign all those final papers. And the move-in was pretty smooth. I moved a bunch of stuff Friday afternoon, but we moved the bulk of it in just two hours on Saturday, thanks to my parents, a few friends (yay Justin and Kayleen) and one student worker (another Justin). The month ended with the wedding of two friends, Jennie and Jacob. Their wedding was fabulous, and it was good seeing old friends again.

May was mostly spent settling into my new house and cheering on the Buena Vista Beaver baseball team in their first ever D3 College World Series appearance.

In June, I was on the road. A lot. I went to Minneapolis to visit friends and see my Rangers play in Target Field. (They lost.) I also got my first ever manicure that weekend and tried Zumba (hooked!). I made a spontaneous purchase of second row seats at the Michael Buble concert and drove to Des Moines and back in the same night. I never regretted it. At the very end of June, I embarked on a last minute (planned two weeks out) road trip to Milwaukee for Summerfest. Again, so worth it. Oh, and June was also the month I found out my friend, Heather, was pregnant! (Her little girl is due just a few weeks from now.)

The Buble concert turned this casual fan into a major one.


Me with my Brice girls at Summerfest.

Me with Tim Stop(ulos) -- my main motivation for going to Summerfest.

Whew.

This year was so busy, I think I need to split the reflection into two posts.

You'll have to come back tomorrow for Part II.

In the meantime, you have until 10 p.m. tonight to enter my Christmas Eve Giveaway.

I get by with a little help from ... the internet?

2011-12-29T10:45:00.000-06:00

I am a very independent person. Perhaps too independent for my own good sometimes.

I don't like to ask people for help (even if I want or need it), and if they help me, I always want to pay them (although they don't always take it).

I also don't like to pay for things I can do myself such as snow removal and lawn care. I have paid for both of those things in the past, but ultimately, it felt like a waste of money. I'm perfectly capable of shoveling snow and mowing the lawn (even if I'm not a fan of either), so I should just do it.

Ever since I bought a house last April, I've done a few other things that saved me some cash. I needed help from the internet in every case. Here are the two most notable:

A month or so ago, as temperatures got cold, I realized my furnace wasn't working. After some investigation, I concluded that the pilot light was out. I had no idea where to start in relighting it. I took a picture of my furnace and explained my dilemma on Twitter. One of my Twitter followers/friends walked me through the process and within a few moments, the pilot light ignited and I had heat again.

I've had water leaking from my freezer for a few months. We turned off the water supply, but that didn't fix the problem. I really wasn't looking forward to paying a technician to come out. So I Googled the issue and found a message board populated by others with a similar problem. One of the posters (apparently a repairman) suggested that the defrost drainage tube was clogged with dust. A $4 can of compressed air and a few moments behind the fridge was all it took. It's been three days, and I haven't had any water since. I think it's safe to call it a success.

Seriously ... what would I do without the internet?

WLJ: Rewards

2011-12-27T10:17:00.001-06:00

I'm not weighing in this week. With the day off, I slept in ... two hours past my usual wake-up time. And since I like to weigh in at the same time each week (because of the way weight fluctuates), I decided to skip it today. Also, I don't want to feel bad about my weekend indulgence. Sorry, I couldn't stay away from Mom's lefsa or cheesy hashbrowns.

I'm ready to get back into a bit of a routine though. I completed the 20 Day Holiday Workout Challenge. It wasn't that much of a challenge at all to make sure I worked out five days a week. In fact, I think it's easier for me to workout five days a week than three. It's too easy for me to take an extra day off when I'm only working out three days. So I think I'm going to stick to four or five from here on out. I've enjoyed my personal training sessions so far. My trainer is nice, knowledgeable and positive. That's what they should all be, right? The other night she put me on the treadmill, and I realized I liked that better than the elliptical. I also realized I miss running. Who am I? Heh.

I'd like to find a way to reward myself for staying active. Sure, the endorphins are nice, but a little something extra would be even nicer. I've narrowed it down to two choices ...

Switch2Health -- You wear a Step (pedometer) or Replay (device that measures your activity), and you get points for every 10,000 steps or 60 minutes. You can then redeem those points for rewards such as magazine.com discounts and GNC discount cards. The device costs $24.95.

EarndIt --This program works with the fitbit (among other devices). At $99, the fitbit is more expensive than the Replay/Step. The fitbit measures activity as well as sleep patterns. Through EarndIt, you can also use points to purchase discounts. A friend of mine recently bought $200 worth of clothes with a few months of EarndIt points. He's had a fitbit since they first came out, and he's a big fan.

One is definitely more expensive than the other, but I don't know anyone who has used the Step or Replay, so I'm leaning toward the fitbit and EarndIt.

Any thoughts or suggestions?

Music Monday: Favorite Albums of 2011

2011-12-26T17:10:00.002-06:00

Now that the gifts have been opened (and some returned) and the Christmas decorations have come down (or is that just me?), it's time to turn our attention to the next holiday. My favorite. The New Year. Half the enjoyment for me comes in looking back at the year behind us.

As a music enthusiast, I obviously have my favorite albums of the past year. Here they are, in no particular order ...

Modern Love

Matt Nathanson

Favorite tracks: "Modern Love," "Faster," "Mercy," "Queen of (K)nots"

Songs of Separation

Tim Stop

Favorite tracks: "Something's Gotta Give," "A Little Bit Better," "Malaga," "Unconditional"

Sunshine State of Mind

We The Kings

Favorite tracks: "The View From Here," "You and Only You," "Say You Like Me"

Gravity Happens

Kate Voegele

Favorite Tracks: "Enough For Always," "Hundred Million Dollar Soul," "Impatient Girl"

When I Stop Running

TFDI

Favorite tracks: "Hurtin' Kind," "Hold On Tight," "Lover I Don't Have to Love"

Gift Horse

Stephen Kellogg & the Sixers

Favorite tracks: "1993," "Song For Lovers," "Gravity"

Stronger

Kelly Clarkson

Favorite tracks: "Mr. Know-It-All," "What Doesn't Kill You (Stronger)," "Dark Side," "You Can't Win"

The Lovesick

Jason Reeves

Favorite tracks: "Helium Hearts," "Truth," "Save My Heart"

Marc Broussard

Marc Broussard

Favorite tracks: "Lucky," "Cruel," "Let It All Out"

Weight & Wings

Matt Wertz

Favorite tracks: "Don't Come Easy," "Everything Will Be Alright," "Nobody's You"

If you have Spotify, I've made a playlist of all of these albums (except for Tim Stop, which isn't available on Spotify. Instead, I've linked him through his name above).
The rest of the goodies are here. Take a listen.

Christmas Eve Giveaway

2011-12-24T09:08:00.001-06:00

This is going to seem like a completely shameless promotion. It's not meant to be, but I could see where people might perceive it that way. The truth is that I found an extra copy of the first book I wrote.

I penned it the summer of 2002, while I was still searching for my first job. This book served as an outlet for my creativity and I published it about a year later. My second novel, "A Promise Worth Breaking" was published in 2005. My third book is still in the works, as you are probably aware.

So if you'd like to own a copy (plus a $10 gift card to your book distributor of choice), all you have to do is leave me a comment about something you're looking forward to in 2012. I'll announce the winner on New Year's Eve, so you have until 10 p.m. on Dec. 30 to enter.

I hope everyone is having a blessed and fantastic Christmas weekend.

Sing me home, Tony Lucca

2011-12-23T08:57:00.001-06:00

I may or may not have gotten choked up the first few times (or every time) I listened to this song. Hits me hard since there were a few Christmases I did not get to spend with family when I was living in Texas. I was never alone -- in fact I was with some wonderful people -- but family is the best. I'm excited to spend the next few days with mine.

The rules of attraction

2011-12-22T14:42:00.002-06:00

Are the butterflies real? Does physical attraction have to be instantaneous or can it build over time?

I have been wondering a lot lately about this. I even polled online friends (very scientific). The responses were very interesting. And very divided. By gender.

Most of the men who responded said physical attraction happened very early for them. Or it needs to happen early. As one guy put it, "You can't catch a fish without a worm on the hook." That was his analogy. He said he felt like he'd been slapped in the face when he first saw his now wife. He wasn't sure her experience was the same though. Only one male respondent said physical attraction wasn't a huge deal because looks weren't even #1 or 2 in his hierarchy of attraction.

Hmm. Interesting.

Conversely, almost all of the women responded that they weren't initially physically attracted to the men in their lives, but that eventually changed. One said she didn't find her current husband "all that attractive at first. Now he's my super hot sexy baby." Another said attraction came later for them as well, but they've been married "11 smoking years."

This didn't really surprise me all that much. I've known for a long time that men are typically more visually driven than women. This is not to say that looks don't matter to women, but usually, they're won over by an emotional or intellectual connection. It's also important to note my belief that someone may be attractive, but that doesn't mean you're attracted to them.

Still, I wonder ... in looking for the combination of butterflies (physical attraction) and someone I relate to, have I missed out? I began to wonder if I have put too many guys in the friend zone (or worse) too quickly. I'm not going to dwell on that too much. I trust in my instincts, and although it means I've been single for a long time, I'm OK in waiting for it to be "right."

Sometimes music just says it all

2011-12-21T12:26:00.002-06:00

Thank you, Natasha Bedingfield.

WLJ: New beginnings

2011-12-20T18:44:00.001-06:00

Well, the good news is that I haven't gained any weight since my last weigh-in (which was about a month ago). And that's a bit of a small miracle considering all the Christmas goodies I've enjoyed.

And the bad news is ... nah. Forget it. There's no bad news. Only good news.

More good news -- I joined a local fitness center. They were offering a package deal that was just too good to pass up, especially considering I've been eyeing their facilities and classes for awhile. To me, this was a good excuse to try them out at a discounted price. Also, winter is bound to make me want to stay home, so this will give me an excuse and the motivation to get out.

The package came with four 30-minute personal training sessions. I had my first tonight, and I was both nervous and excited. She started me out with ten minutes on the elliptical. I didn't think it'd be that bad, but my legs were sore and shaky when I finished. After that, we did some squats, push-ups (my arch nemesis) and some different ab moves before closing out with some stretching. It doesn't sound like a lot, but I felt like it was a good start. It was enough anyway. I felt like I was going to puke when I got done. Of course, I blame that on the heavy lunch (staff Christmas outing) I had earlier in the day. All in all, it was a really good session. I like my trainer, and I feel like her guidance and encouragement could be just what I need to push through this plateau and power toward my goal.

I have another workout with her on Thursday night, and then they're closed all of next week. That kind of sucks because I'm off work all week and could probably really put some work in. I guess I'll have to do the best I can at home.

Weight-loss goal: 40 lbs.
This week's progress: +/- 0 lb.
Progress to date: -13.2 lbs.
Non-scale victory: Signing up for the fitness center membership. I'm really self-conscious about working out in front of and around other people, so I'm definitely testing my comfort zone with this.

Music Monday: Traditional Christmas Songs

2011-12-19T07:47:00.000-06:00

Here are a few of my favorite Christmas tunes that have more of a religious tone to them. In most cases (where available), I've chosen my favorite rendition of the popular songs. Enjoy.

"O Holy Night" - *N Sync

"Silent Night" - Michael Buble

"Carol of the Bells" - Destiny's Child

"Little Drummer Boy" - Erin McCarley

"Do You Hear What I Hear" - The Blenders

Best Reads of the Week

2011-12-17T11:15:00.001-06:00

It was another good week on the blogosphere. Clearly, my subscriptions are superior.

Operation Sequin Pants: The Eagle Has Landed (this free bird) - Love this girl. Her quirky sense of humor. Her bold sense of style. She posted about these pants a few weeks back and I knew she'd rock them. And she did.

A thousand words won't bring you back ... (Quarter for Her Thoughts) - Get the kleenex out if you're going to read this one, but don't avoid it just because it might make you sad. This blogger lost her father last month and is working through her grief. The way she expresses it in this entry is so honest and real. It's everything blogging should be. My heart breaks for her, and she is among the many in my prayers and thoughts this time of year.

Happy Holidays from 1997 (Stumbling Towards Nirvana) - This is more of a watch than a read. The video chat between these two girls is hilarious -- filled with one-liners, lip syncing to holiday (and other) tunes, Christmas porn and a little profanity (that's just a warning for you, in case you don't dig that kind of thing). After watching this, I realized I don't have near as many video chats with friends as I should. Who's in?

a six-step process, the "eff yeah" list and a peek at my annual goal-setting template ... (nicole is better) - I want to be better at setting goals, and I love Nicole's approach to it. Even if it is very Type A. I still adore you, Nicole. Oh, and my favorite part is the "eff yeah" list. I try to do that at the end of each year (although not necessarily by that name). It's fun to look back and celebrate successes and happy moments as you get ready for a new year.

4 Crappy Bowls that No One Cares about the 8 schools that don't want/deserve to be there (isnotawasteland) - I admit, I was a bit afraid to read this entry. The blogger is from Iowa, and I was sure he would be including my beloved Iowa State Cyclones and their Pinstripe Bowl in this list. Alas, he did not. *whew* Some of the ticket prices for these bowl games kind of make me sad for those teams. But this entry made me laugh. Am I a bad person?

Forgotten holiday song

2011-12-16T12:34:00.002-06:00

In Monday's post, I inadvertently (and appallingly) forgot this gem. I mean, the first line is, "It was Christmas Eve, babe, in the drunk tank ..." Ha ha. The guy's teeth are horrible, the song is awesome. It definitely belongs on the list.

Happy Friday everyone!!

Friday Favorites: Winter survival kit

2011-12-16T08:11:00.002-06:00

I have a love-hate relationship with winter.

On the love side, we have sweaters, great holidays (Christmas & New Year's Eve) and the fact that weather often forces us to slow down a little.

On the hate side, we have ice, shoveling snow, dry skin and early sunsets.

Gah.

I do love that I live somewhere with changing seasons. It's a small part of the reason I moved back from Texas almost six years ago (I can't believe it's been that long). The beauty of fall and renewing feeling of spring are worth the winters. I guess.

Anyhow, here are a few of my favorite things that help me cope with the winter blahs.

Fireside Thermal Long Jane Pajamas

via Victoria's Secret

These are so comfy and cozy. I can't wait to put them on each night, and I'm a little sad when they have to go in the laundry and I have to wear something else. Maybe I need another set. Hmm.

Satin Hands Pampering Set

via Mary Kay

I loved this product long before I was a consultant. It's good all year-round, but I reach for it much more often during the winter months when my hands start to feel extra dry.

Scentsy

via Scentsy

My Scentsy warmers are on pretty often when I'm home. In the spring and summer, I go for cleaner, lighter scents such as Inner Peace, Flutter and Camu Camu. In the fall, I love Autumn Sunset and Central Park Pralines. Right now, I'm rocking Christmas Cottage and it is amazing.

Chocolate Mint Oolong Tea

via Stash

A friend sent this to me as a Secret Santa gift a few years ago, and it's been my winter favorite ever since.

Adi Designs Women's Lug Sole Microsuede Boots

via Overstock

They're so warm, and they're wayyyyyyyyy cheaper than Uggs (sorry, I refused to spend $100+ on boots). I have the camel colored ones, and I bought my mom the chocolate brown ones last year. She loves them as much as I do.

17 days to go ...

2011-12-14T18:52:00.001-06:00

There are less than three weeks left in this year. Crazy, huh? I JUST got used to writing 2011 on everything, and now it's time to transition to 2012. The last year of the earth, right? Not sure I buy that theory, but OK.

As I'm sure I've mentioned on here (and will probably mention a lot in the next few weeks), New Year's Eve is my favorite holiday. Logically, I know it's a change of the calendar year and nothing more. But it always feels -- at least to me -- like the start of something new. A clean slate. I had an awesome 2011. I'll be recapping that soon, but I'm already starting to think about my new goals for the new year.

I don't really make resolutions, but I do select three new things I want to do/try in the new year. Here were last year's goals:

1. Sing karaoke with the Brice girls
Every time I go somewhere with them for karaoke, they ask me to join in. I have declined every time so far. Yet I've sung karaoke with other friends. So it's not really karaoke that intimidates me, it's that Julie and Kathleen are such good singers, I'm afraid of how awful I sound. But it's time for me to realize that they are not the kind of friends who will judge me. I've known them for 12 years and they haven't yet. I just need to do it. They'll probably never ask me again after I do. Ha ha.

2. Yoga
A lot of my friends do this and really seem to enjoy it. I think it'd be a great thing for fitness and relaxation. I even have a DVD on yoga, but I have yet to put it in the player. It's time to try it.

3. Buy a drink for a cute guy
You don't know how many times I've been out, seen a guy I was interested in and had no idea how to approach him. Alright, so most of the time, this is at my brother's bar, so the awkward quotient is raised. But still. I'm 30. And I'm assertive in so many other areas of my life. I need to expand it to my love life. It may lead to nothing, but at least I will have done it.

I finished two of three that I set for this year. I still have a few weeks to get to that last item, but I'm not sure I'll really have an opportunity in that time. So, two out of three isn't bad, right? That's what Meatloaf said anyway.

I have no idea where to set the mark for 2012. I already have so many plans. Hmm ...

Do you set resolutions or goals? Have you set yours for the new year?

WLJ: Points Plus and pushing forward

2011-12-13T08:44:00.011-06:00

A few weeks ago, Weight Watchers notified members that there would be some changes to Points Plus. I had no idea what to expect. The last time they changed the Points Program, foods changed values. It wasn't totally unwelcome, but it was still an adjustment. I worried they might be making some drastic changes again.

I shouldn't have worried.

Yes, there were changes, but so far, I haven't run into anything that bothers me.

I love the updated website design, which makes it easier for me to get to my calculator from any page. Before, I'd go into the forums and the recipes and then have to click back to home to go to my dashboard. This is much more convenient, even if it really only saves a few seconds.

The change did result in a lower daily point total for me. I went from 29 points to 26. Three points doesn't sound like much. It's basically the equivalent of a yogurt. As someone who strives not to use all of her weekly points (but some of them), I knew this would affect me. Indeed, it took me a few days to get used to scaling back my daily intake. But now I'm used to it. And I don't really miss those extra three points. Too much.

They also offer an alternative to tracking called "Simply Filling." Basically, you don't have to track, but there is a list of foods you have to stick to. And you just eat enough to feel full. This is a nice option for those who don't want to worry about tracking or don't care for it. I don't think it will work for me just yet though. I'm still not good at moderating how much I eat of something UNLESS I know I have to track something. I need guidelines. And boundaries. Sure, I'll push them once in awhile, but I still need them to fall back on.

My favorite aspect of the changes is the Activity Goal. Previously, I was setting my own goal for activity I wanted to complete during the week. That was fine, but now I can actually track it on Weight Watchers. Awesome.

Supposedly, we'll soon be able to scan items in a grocery store and find the point totals. I look forward to trying that out. Reading labels is exhausting after awhile, although I do it anyway.

All in all, I have no issues with the Points Plus changes. The few ways in which they affect me are positive.

******

Speaking of changes, I'm going to be changing up my activity a little. I'm stepping outside of my comfort zone and joining a fitness center. Even though I'm good at working out on my own, I'm not sure I'm capable of pushing myself to the levels I need to reach my goal. A local establishment is offering a deal that can't be beat, so I'm going to sign up this week (and try and beat the New Year's surge) and get moving. I'm a little nervous about working out around other people, and I'm definitely afraid of having a trainer. (What if he/she makes me puke? Ha ha). But I'm also pretty excited about having some extra help and motivation as I keep powering through this journey. I'll keep you posted.

Also, here's that pink dress pic I mentioned a few weeks ago.

Same dress and shoes.

Slightly different pose.

Six months apart.

I've definitely made progress.

It's time to make some more.

Music Monday: Secular Christmas Songs

2011-12-12T07:54:00.009-06:00

Last week, I shared some of my favorite holiday originals. This week, it's time for songs we all know that are not religious in nature. It was really hard choosing just five!

"Sleigh Ride" by Leroy Anderson

A lot of artists have recorded this, but I still prefer an instrumental version. This high school band did a great job. It reminds me of all those years when I was in band, and we insisted on playing this for our holiday concerts.

"Christmas Time is Here" - Vince Guaraldi Trio

Who doesn't love Charlie Brown?

"All I Want For Christmas Is You" - Mariah Carey

This song always reminds me of one of my favorite holiday movies, "Love Actually."

You can see that version here.

"Winter Wonderland" - Stephen Kellogg & the Sixers

Love, love, love this song. And Stephen's rendition (Javier Colon joins him here) is possibly my favorite to listen to. The visual on this video isn't great, but the audio can't be beat.

"Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas" - Judy Garland

Again, embedding was disabled, so you'll have to click to listen to it at youtube. It's worth it.

Best Reads of the Week

2011-12-10T11:06:00.000-06:00

I love a good blog share. As I've mentioned before, I read a ton of blogs everyday. Here are my five favorite posts from the past week or so.

Man Candy Monday (An Unstyled Life) - Last week, J put up Jake Gyllenhaal. This week, she posted pic spam of Zac Efron (my newest obsession). I swear she's just trying to win me over. One thing is clear ... she and I have similar taste in men. Good thing she's married so I don't have to compete with her. Ha ha.

Pictures of Girls Eating (The Frenemy) - Sounds like a project for hilarity, but it's so much more. "This is a giant FUCK YOU as well- to the pictures we strive to look like, the dummy reality star non-contributors who make us question how we look, the moments we will have had and will have where we get mad at our pants."

Writer's Workshop: Blast from the Past (Rainy Saturday) - I thoroughly enjoyed this post because it reminds me of journeying through my own past journal/blog entries. Good stuff here.

We Become Our Mothers (Plot Monkeys) - This blog is written by some of my favorite romance authors, and this post made me laugh. I have caught myself saying or thinking things that reminded me of my mother. A few decades ago, this might have terrified me, but now, it just makes me smile. I wish I was more like my mom.

The Jewelry Wall (Live a Little Wilder) - My friend, Jill, introduced me to this blog, and I have enjoyed every post. This one, in particular, struck me because it's a brilliant idea. I've been using a cork board and push pins as necklace holders. Yeah, I thought I was genius, but it really isn't working out like I hoped it would. This would be much better. Might be a project next summer.

It's the freakin' weekend

2011-12-09T12:24:00.000-06:00

This is what I hope to do over the next few days ...

Bake Christmas cookies.

I want to make a few varieties.

Who wants to help me eat them?

Watch the ISU-Iowa basketball game.

I enjoy Fred Hoiberg sightings.

Go Cyclones!

Get some more work done on my NaNoWriMo project.

Now that I have readers who are really interested, I really need to keep plugging away.

I'm currently at a bit of a turning point in the story. Those are always tough to navigate.

See "New Year's Eve."

I might try and catch a matinee on Saturday.

Mmm ... Zac Efron.

All I want for Christmas is ...

2011-12-08T20:04:00.000-06:00

Making a Christmas list used to be really easy. These days, it really takes a lot of searching for me to find things I want. Well, that's not exactly true. More like it's hard for me to find things that I am willing to let others buy me. That said, here are of the few of the things on my wishlist this year:

Cuisinart DC 1200 Brew Central Coffeemaker

I am definitely in need of a new coffee maker. I know everyone is big on the Keurigs, and I'm certainly not necessarily opposed to them although the cost of the cups concerns me. That said, this drip machine would be a huge upgrade from my current coffee maker, which I'm pretty sure I bought for $10 or so right after college.

iHome iH15 Color Changing Speaker System for iPod

During my recent travels, I got to use an iHome for my iPod for the first time. I loved it. It would be cool to have one at home.

Just Dance 3 for Wii

I hear "Let's Go To the Mall" by Robin Sparkles is on it. That's all I need to know.

Glee Karaoke Revolution Volume 3

I have Volume 1 at home, and it's so much fun.

Chris Drish (a recent contestant on "The Bachelorette")

I don't think this one needs much explanation. But if you're still lost, please go here.

What are you hoping to find under your tree and/or in your stocking?

WLJ: One week at a time

2011-12-06T17:34:00.001-06:00

Weight Watchers unveiled a slew of changes to Points Plus late last week.

They also changed my daily point total. That's fine. There were some days 29 was too many points to eat anyway. And I can change it back if I want. But I don't wan to. I'm serious about my goal.

That doesn't mean it's not a challenge. Especially with Christmas goodies all around me ... and cold days that make me want to cuddle under the covers right after work instead of working out. Sure, I could boycott cookies and candies and workout 90 minutes each time instead of 60.

But ... that won't happen.

I'm only human, after all. I'm not always going to be on my best behavior. I just have to take it week by week and minimize the bad choices. I dd a pretty good job of that last week. I knew I had a work party last Saturday, so I stuck close to my points all week, so all my extras were saved for some indulgence on Saturday night.

I've been really good about sticking to the 20 Day Holiday Workout Challenge. Exercising five days a week isn't that bad when you know you have two days off (which I believe the body needs). And my workouts are actually pretty fun, so I don't mind it at all. Last week, I rotated between my Biggest Loser Challenge game, Zumba and Wii Fit training (all on my Wii). I really miss getting outside to run, but no way am I going to venture out into the snow and cold. My lungs would hate me. I do have a treadmill (it was left in my house by the previous owners ... ha!), so I may have to give that a whirl a few times this winter just to keep going.

What do you do to stay motivated during the winter months?

Music Monday: Original Christmas Songs

2011-12-05T07:46:00.002-06:00

For the next three Music Mondays, I'll be sharing some of my favorite music of the season. I'm starting with my top five original songs. (You can consider Todd Carey's song from last week a bonus.) Enjoy!

"Christmas Tonight" - Dave Barnes feat. Hillary Scott

"Christmas in Jail" - Ernie Halter

"It's Christmas Time" - Andy Davis

"All I Want For Christmas is You" - Four Shadow

"Cold December Night" - Michael Buble

I also urge you to look up "Snowed In" by Josh Hoge on Spotify or Itunes. It wasn't on YouTube. Probably because it's too sexy.

Friday Fiver - Best Reads This Week

2011-12-02T08:18:00.003-06:00

Every day, my Google Reader is bursting with humor, insights, recipes, craft ideas, fashion tips and more. I sincerely look forward to poring over it each morning. Today, I've decided to share the five best blog posts I read this week. Total copout? Or really awesome? You decide.

Smart, Pretty and Awkward (Thursday's post) -- She has some very helpful advice on how to live better and be better. Love it.

Iowa Girl Eats (20 Day Holiday Workout Challenge) -- I joined this challenge, but the best part of this post is the AWESOME turkey burger recipe. I think I need to try it this weekend.

We Love Dates (Dating Profile Dealbreakers) -- Jenn has a lot more dating experience than I do (good and bad), and I always enjoy her posts at this site. But this post in particular spoke to me because there are so many BAD dating profiles out there.

Southified Masshole (And Then I Went to See a Psychic) -- Rachael is one of my favorite social media gals. And I totally want to try a psychic reading. But we'll have to wait until January because of my self-benefitting spending freeze.

An Unstyled Life (Man Candy Monday) -- She put up a bunch of pics of my future husband, so naturally I liked this post.

What's on your weekend agenda? I have a work Christmas party Saturday night, but that's my only commitment of the weekend. The rest of it will be spent writing, watching football, working out and watching cheesy Christmas movies on Lifetime, Hallmark and ABC Family. I can't wait.

Hello December!

2011-12-01T19:06:00.000-06:00

A new month is here. Even though it's really just the turning of a calendar page, it always feels a little like a clean slate. Then again, that's how I feel about New Year's Eve too (my favorite holiday, by the way). I've decided to take a page from J over at An Unstyled Life and set some goals at the beginning of each month. Oh, and I'll let you know if I accomplish them. Don't worry.

December Goals

Don't buy anything for myself that's not a necessity. You don't know how hard this is. Online shopping is an addiction.
Workout at least five times each week. I'm part of Iowa Girl Eats' 20 Day Holiday Workout Challenge.
Continue writing (and maybe finish?) my NaNoWriMoProject. Now that I have some voracious readers, I'll be more committed to keep going.
Put together my Christmas letter. I had an awesome year. It's time to reflect on it.
Be more social on a local level. I was gone so much in the summer and fall, it's time for me to hang out with people here.

I think this is a pretty good start. Do you have goals for the month?

Blink, and it's over

2011-11-30T12:47:00.008-06:00

My badge for completing NaNoWriMo.

That's kind of how I feel about November. Where did it go?

I had a crazy busy month. Between my "little sister's" wedding in Baltimore, my living room concert, Thanksgiving, NaNoWriMo and lots of other fun, it was an awesome month. But I also feel like I barely had time to breathe. I suppose that's OK. Winter should give me some time to slow down.

Speaking of NaNoWriMo, did I mention I finished? Early? Yes. In spite of taking seven days off while I was out east for the wedding, I reached the 50K word mark on Sunday night. Well, it was more like early Monday. I made a ton of progress over Thanksgiving weekend, capped with a huge 9K word surge on Sunday. I just couldn't stop writing. This story is still a bit of a mystery to me. I don't know where it came from. I just started writing it on Nov. 1, and it's taken on a life of its own. I figured I'd have to really struggle to make it long enough to fulfill NaNoWriMo requirements (50K words), but once I got going, it hasn't been difficult at all.

Only three people have had the privilege (or punishment?) of reading it. They say it's good, but it might just be that they really like me and want to be nice. I'm not convinced it's a good enough story to publish. It's not done anyway. Even at 50K words and seven chapters long, the two main characters still haven't resolved the tension between them. That's my favorite part of books, by the way, the constant back and forth between the hero and heroine. The close calls. The almosts. It's pretty fun.

Oh, the story also doesn't have a title yet. I've never gotten this far without coming up with a title at some point. I'm hoping one of my readers will toss out a suggestion or two (hint, hint).

This is the first year I've completed NaNoWriMo. I decided it might be a good way to get my creative juices going again and help me finish that baseball romance novel I started writing three years ago. That one's only about 50 pages long. Oops. Maybe once I finish this untitled project, I'll get back to that one. In the meantime, here's a snippet of my current project. Enjoy!

Cori shaded her eyes against the morning sky and looked around. Trees rose tall on either side of the road, their leaves varying shades of green. She imagined what the trees would look like in another month – red, orange and gold – once the temperatures cooled off. It would look like a postcard or a painting, particularly at sunset with no signs of civilization nearby. In another situation, she might have admired the serene beauty of the setting, but right now, she didn’t have that in her. She silently pleaded for a rest stop, a car … any potential source of help.
            “Shit.”
The quiet but clear curse word pulled her attention away from the empty horizon. Luke’s dark brown hair was disheveled and his face was twisted into a grimace as he knelt beside the vehicle, turning the crank on the tire jack. He completed a couple more turns before the crank part came out of the body of the jack. He swore again. It had taken him ten minutes just to figure out how the jack worked, and so far, he’d spent another fifteen trying to raise the car to change the rear passenger tire.
            “Do you always swear this much?” she asked him.
            His head shot up and Cori took a step back when she saw the look on his face. His brown eyes seemed darker than she’d remembered when he’d introduced himself that morning, and his chin jutted out in an expression of anger and frustration.
            “Do you want to do this?” he asked, his tone cutting through her.
            “No …” she said, folding her arms across her body.
            “Then don’t complain about the way I’m doing it,” Luke said. He lowered his head and got back to work on raising the car.
            Cori took a few steps away from the car and looked around them again. They were only two hours into their drive. A few cars had driven by, but so far no one had stopped to help them.
            They’d been making good time on the road until she’d heard the unmistakable “thump thump.” It had been loud enough to wake Sam and Whitney, who had fallen asleep in the backseat almost immediately once the drive started. The two were now sitting on the ground a few yards away, his arms around her from behind as she leaned against him. Cori rolled her eyes at the blissful smiles on their faces. If it wasn’t for Sam and Whitney, they wouldn’t be on the side of the road right now, and they were acting like it was the most wonderful moment ever.

Two weeks earlier, Cori had just learned about Whitney’s new man. There were a lot of those. Whitney went through guys almost as rapidly as she went through hair colors. In April, she’d had dark brown hair and Will. In July, Whitney had gone red and started seeing Josh. Now, it was September, and Whitney’s locks were a dark blonde as she cuddled up to Sam. Cori thought the shade suited her friend, but she wasn’t so sure about Sam yet. She really didn’t know much about him. She’d barely said “hi” to him before Whitney suggested this road trip.
“Sam scored free tickets to the Austin City Limits Music Festival,” Whitney had said excitedly.
“That’s in Texas, right?” Cori said, looking up from the computer screen.
The girls both worked in the finance industry. It was good money and decent work, but sometimes Cori found it a bit mundane. She couldn’t afford to shift gears though; her college loan statements never seemed to get lighter and the job market was so unstable she was fortunate to be employed. A look at the empty desks surrounding her every day reminded her of this fact.
“Duh. Austin is in Texas,” Whitney said, giving Cori an annoyed look. “It’s only a fifteen-hour drive. With four drivers, we’ll only have to drive a few hours each.”
“Four drivers? We?” Cori asked.
“Yeah. Sam, me, you and Luke,” Whitney responded.
Cori shook her head. “No. No way I’m getting in a car with two guys I don’t even know to drive to a music festival. That’s crazy. Besides, there’s no way Jim will let us both have vacation at the same time.”
Whitney grinned mischievously and looked around to make sure no one else was listening.
“You’ll ask for vacation, because you’re honest like that,” she said. “I’ll call in sick because I don’t give a shit. We have put in so much overtime since the layoffs. We deserve this. We need this.”
Cori still wasn’t sold, and she turned her attention back to the computer screen. She should have known better than to expect her friend to drop the subject. Whitney badgered her for the rest of the day – subtly and overtly. When she wasn’t asking Cori outright if she had changed her mind, she was sending her e-mail links to the facebook pages for bands that would be playing at the festival.
By the end of the day, Cori was wavering. Only part of the credit for that could go to Whitney. Sure, Cori got excited at the idea of seeing Fitz & the Tantrums, Sara Bareilles, Cee-Lo Green and Stevie Wonder. The greater appeal of the road trip, however, was a much-needed break from work. As Whitney had said earlier, they had worked a lot of long days and weeks in the previous months. When the company had to cut jobs, that didn’t mean there was less work to do; it only meant there were less people to do the work. Cori worked more ten-hour days than eight and more Saturdays than not. She could use a break. Whitney was proposing thirty hours in a car and at least that many hours of live music. It was starting to sound really good, if for no other reason than simply to escape her desk.
A few beers over a late dinner loosened Cori’s hesitation a little more. The next day, they got slammed at work, and that was enough to push her over the edge.
“I’m in,” she said to Whitney after hanging up with a particularly difficult client.
Whitney gave her a puzzled look.
“The festival. The road trip. I’m in.”
Her friend grinned. “Good, because I already told Sam it was on.”
Cori rolled her eyes, but she laughed too. She put in her vacation request that same day. It was extremely short notice, but to her surprise, her supervisor approved it almost immediately.

Here they were, a little over a week later, on the side of the interstate in northern Missouri. They’d left Des Moines at dawn and were still roughly thirteen hours from their destination, and they’d have to make the rest of the drive on a donut. That would undoubtedly slow them down.
Luke had successfully raised the car and was working to remove the flattened tire. His face still showed signs of annoyance though. She wondered how he had gotten roped into this road trip. Moreover, she wondered how Sam had talked Luke into using his car. She was willing to bet he was regretting it now that one of the tires was flat.
Cori walked over to where Sam and Whitney were sitting and looked down at them.
“Guys, I think we should all chip in and help Luke buy a new tire,” she said. “When we get to the next city, we should find a tire center and get it done. Otherwise, it’s going to take us longer to get to Austin.”
“Why should we have to pay?” Sam asked. “It’s his tire. It probably would have gone bad anyway.”
“But it went bad while he was driving us to this festival,” Cori said. “He didn’t have to offer up his car.”
“But he did, so it’s his problem,” Sam said.
Cori looked at Whitney, imploring her friend to back her up. The bottle blonde stayed quiet, and Cori sighed and shook her head. She turned away and walked back to Luke.
“When we get to the next town, we should stop at a tire center and get you a new tire,” Cori said.
“Don’t you think I didn’t think of that?” he snapped.
Cori did her best to stay calm. “Of course, but I meant I’ll help you pay for it,” she said. “I think Sam and Whitney should too, but I doubt they will.”
Luke snorted. “Figures,” he said. “Sam is so cheap. I’ll be lucky to get gas money out of him. He even made Whitney pay for the hotel.”
That was news to Cori, although it didn’t surprise her. In addition to rotating men on a regular basis, she also got lost in every guy she dated. She did whatever it took to keep them and she hadn’t yet figured out that her methods weren’t working. Then again, Cori didn’t have any room to offer her friend advice.
“Why are you friends with him?” Cori asked.
Luke shrugged. “We’ve been friends for a long time,” he said. “He’s not a bad guy; he’s just not very motivated.”
Cori glanced back at Sam and Whitney. They were now full-on making out, which only added to Cori’s annoyance. She wasn’t a fan of PDAs in general, but she was even less inclined to like them when they were stranded on the side of the road.
“He’s motivated about some things,” Cori muttered.
Luke didn’t hear her though. He was concentrating on pulling the deflated tire off the car. He carried it to the trunk and put it in there, but not before inspecting the treads with a perplexed expression. With a shrug and a sigh, he returned to the side of the car with the donut. He got to work, and Cori watched cars continue to pass by them.
Putting the replacement on seemed to go smoother, and after he lowered the car to the ground again, Cori helped him put their bags back in the trunk. Sam and Whitney finally disentangled themselves and climbed into the backseat. Luke slid behind the wheel, and Cori resumed her post in the front passenger seat.
“Good work, man,” Sam offered from the back as Luke pulled back onto the road.
“Yeah, no help from you,” Luke said.
“I wouldn’t know what to do, so I wouldn’t be any help anyway. It was best for me to just stay out of the way.”
“You don’t know how to change a tire? What’s wrong with you?”
“It’s not that big of a deal.”
“Whatever.”
They were both quiet then, but Cori could feel the tension between them. She didn’t know what to say, so she just looked out the window at the passing landscape. It wasn’t terribly interesting, but she pretended it was. If Whitney noticed the tension, she had a much different approach to dealing with it.
“Put in one of the CDs I made, Cori,” she said, passing a CD binder up to the front seat.
Cori glanced at Luke as she accepted the hand off. She didn’t have much choice; Whitney pretty much dumped it into her lap. Luke just stared straight ahead and continued driving. Taking that as an OK, Cori pulled a CD out of a plastic sleeve and put it in the radio. Pretty soon, the sound of electric guitars and the voice of Chris Martin filled the car.
“I’m so excited to see Coldplay,” Whitney said, giggling. “Sam is too, aren’t you baby?”
“Sure,” Sam said in a voice that didn’t convince Cori he was at all excited about this festival that had been his idea.
“Who are you excited to see, Luke?” Whitney asked, undeterred by her boyfriend’s ambivalence.
Luke was quiet for awhile. So long that Cori didn’t think he was going to answer Whitney’s question. When he finally did speak, it kind of surprised all of them.
“Kanye will be kind of cool, but Ray LaMontagne is pretty good too.”
“Never heard of him,” Whitney said.
“Yes you have,” Cori said, appalled by her friend’s statement. She described Ray and even sang a few lines of one of his better-known songs. Whitney responded with a shrug and leaned back against Sam, who was already dozing off.
Cori shook her head, frowning. “She’s out of her mind if she thinks she’s never heard of Ray LaMontagne,” she said to Luke. “I know she’s listened to his album with me.”
“Her loss,” Luke said. “You have a nice voice, by the way.”
She was caught off-guard by his compliment and by the way it made her blush.
“Thanks,” she said.
He seemed flustered by it too. They were both quiet for the next several miles, letting Coldplay fill the silence in the car. And drown out the snoring coming from the backseat.
Cori had never really cared for Coldplay. Their radio tunes were OK, she supposed, but nothing in their repertoire had really grabbed her so far. As she listened now, her opinion held. They were talented musicians, but it didn’t do much for her. She needed something more. She couldn’t explain what it was she liked or disliked in musicians; she only knew what she liked when she heard it.
She glanced over at Luke, who was relaxed but focused on the road. She’d only just met him that morning as they were loading the cars. He was still a bit of a mystery to her. Their conversation since the flat tire was the most words they’d exchanged in the entire drive.
“So what do you do, Luke?”
“What do you mean?”
“For work? What do you do?”
“I’m a manager at a movie theater.”
“Oh,” Cori said. She was surprised.
“Nothing fancy, I know,” Luke said, reading her lack of words.
“No, I’m sure it’s a good job,” she said.
“It’s alright. I get to see a lot of free movies, and it pays the bills.”
“As long as you like it, that’s what matters.”
They were both silent for a few moments.
“You work with Whitney, but that’s as much as I know,” Luke said finally. “Sam didn’t seem to know what she did, something in an office.”
Cori laughed a little. “I’m a financial advisor at Principal, so he’s on the right track.”
Luke nodded. “That sounds ...”
“Boring? Yeah, it can be, but it’s good money and I’m good at it.”
“Did you go to school for that?”
“Yeah, I have a master’s in finance,” she said.
“Wow,” he said, clearly impressed. “Good for you. I’m feeling a little dumb now.”
She shrugged.
“You don’t like it?”
“Not really.”
“You spent all that time and money and you don’t like your job?”
“Crazy, right? Maybe I’m the dumb one in the car.”
“No, that would be Sam, but ... for real. Why would you get a degree in something you hate?”
“I don’t know,” she said. “I was always good at math, so I figured it was a good fit. I didn’t realize I would be bored until it was too late.”
Luke laughed. “You make it sound like your job is a punishment you just have to endure.”
Cori tilted her head to the side, neither confirming nor denying his statement.
“It’s not too late, you know,” he said. “You’re still plenty young. You could find another calling.”
“How do I do that?” she asked.
“You’re asking the wrong person,” Luke said. “I still haven’t found mine.”
“Hmm. I guess we’re both kind of lost then, huh?”
“I guess so.”

WLJ: Here come the holidays

2011-11-29T17:25:00.000-06:00

This time of year is laden with carbs and the desire to curl up on the couch and watch cheesy Christmas movies. I can't resist either of those things completely, but I'm determined not to let the holiday season derail my weight-loss goals.

Did you know the average American gains one pound each year between Thanksgiving and New Year's Eve?

Doesn't sound like much, but those pounds can accumulate. I can't completely blame the holidays for my weight-gain, but they are probably part of it. If we're only counting my post-teenage holiday seasons, that's 11 pounds.

I'm not gaining another pound this Christmas. Nope. Not going to. I'm determined.

How will I battle the bulge?

One ... I'm going to enjoy all the treats the holiday brings, but in moderation. One Christmas cookie is fine. A dozen is not. And, I will continue to track all my intake on Weight Watchers. They're about to roll out some new features for Points Plus, so this could get interesting.
Two ... I'm going to make sure I eat a good breakfast everyday. I've been doing yogurt with Grape Nuts this fall, but now it's getting to be oatmeal weather. It's good, filling and super easy to eat at my desk. I may also start mixing in some green smoothies (spinach blended with a banana, other fruit and water). My friend, Jill, says they're delicious, plus you get tons of fruits and vegetables to start the day.
Three ... I'm going to stay active. I've joined Iowa Girl Eats' 20 Day Holiday Workout Challenge. Basically, I'm pledging to workout every weekday between now and Christmas. Totally doable. Afraid you'll get bored? Kristin has you covered with 20 different workouts she uses. Seriously. You can do this. Join us?

Music Monday: Todd Carey - "Perfect Christmas Day"

2011-11-28T12:45:00.004-06:00

Thanksgiving is over, which means it's officially OK to play Christmas music, right?

Good, because I have a massive collection (which continues to grow each year) that I've been dying to break into. I'll share a few of my most-played tunes in the weeks ahead.

In the meantime, here's one of my favorites by one of my favorites.

What's your favorite traditional and/or non-traditional Christmas song?

WLJ: Checking out?

2011-11-23T12:21:00.001-06:00

You might have noticed I didn't post an update yesterday. Or maybe you didn't. Don't feel bad.

Truthfully, I completely forgot it was Tuesday until partway through the day. So I didn't weigh in. I could have weighed in today, but I decided I didn't want to.

In fact, I've decided to go a few weeks without weighing in. I'll still be tracking and doing the things I'm supposed to, but I'm going to take a few weeks off from the scale.

Why?

Because sometimes it does more harm than good.

The numbers I've put up so far have not been impressive, and I'd hardly call my weight-loss attempts a success at this point. Yet I looked at a photo of myself in the same dress from April and November, and I saw so much change. So I think it's time for me to take a break from the numbers and just focus on how I feel and getting healthier.

My next weigh-in will be Dec. 20. Marking it on my calendar now.

I will continue to chronicle my weight-loss journey -- telling you when I've been bad and good. Accountability is good. Guilt over numbers is not.

Music Monday: Kelly Clarkson - "Mr. Know It All"

2011-11-21T07:55:00.000-06:00

I am loving Kelly Clarkson's new album. I've always enjoyed her music and her latest effort did not disappoint. This song reminds me of so many people I've known. Hits me hard.

Weekend in review: Living room concert edition

2011-11-20T16:07:00.001-06:00

What an outstanding weekend. Seriously. It could not have been any better.

It kicked off Friday night with a little Cyclone football. I went into the game with pretty low expectations -- I just wanted them to play well and not get blown out. They gave me what I wanted ... and more.

OKLAHOMA STATE - 31

IOWA STATE - 37

FINAL (2 OT)

Unbelievable. Absolutely unbelievable. Not only did the Cyclones completely stun the nation by beating the #2 ranked team in the country, but the win also made them bowl eligible. Yes!! It definitely set the tone for what has been a fabulous weekend.

I spent much of Saturday cleaning and cooking in preparation for my guests, which included seven friends (from various stages of my life) and one musician. Ernie Halter made his way through the icy roads to perform in my living room for two hours. Of course, he did more than perform. He hung out with us and chatted with us and shared some really fun stories. This was the first living room concert I've hosted, but I don't think it'll be the last. I loved every bit of it.

Thanks so much to Ernie for providing a few hours of quality entertainment and music. Thanks also to Jamie, Ashley, Wes, Alicia, Hannah, Josh and Justin for the friendship and companionship. I hope you had as much fun as I did.

After the concert, a few of us decided to check out a college haunt. It was crazy to walk into that bar, where I'd spent plenty of Friday and Saturday nights during my college years. I wasn't there as often as others, but enough for it to be familiar. Not much had changed either. Not even the music. I swear, while we were there, we heard "Tootsie Roll" and a few other songs that transported me back in time. Fortunately, I was mindful enough to remember that most of the people around me were about ten years my junior. Ugh. Not interested in a boy at this point in my life. I want a man. Ha ha.

Today, Alicia, Jamie and I got lunch and then Jamie and I caught a matinee of "Breaking Dawn Part 1." I know what you're thinking. I agree the books and the movies are far from brilliant. But, for me, they're a nice escape. That's all I'm really looking for. This is the only movie in the "Twilight" series I have not seen in a midnight showing. After last week's travel, I just didn't have the energy to do midnight showing this week. Maybe I'll go back out for part two. Oh, and by the way, forget Edward and Jacob, I'm totally Team Emmett.

Now it's time to relax a little. I still need to do some cleaning up from the party, but that's going to wait until after I get in some quality NaNoWriMo and DVR time.

Five Questions Friday

2011-11-18T08:20:00.001-06:00

Since NaNoWriMo is sucking all of my creativity, I'm going back to Five Questions Friday for today's entry. I really like this week's questions!

1. Do you have a go to song that always puts you in a good mood?

Music, in general, usually puts me in a good mood. And there are plenty of songs that cheer me up, but here are my top five:

"Good Life" - Andy Davis

"Tonight Tonight" - Hot Chelle Rae

"Bigger Than My Body" - John Mayer

"Uncharted" - Sara Bareilles

"Raise Your Glass" - Pink

2. Are you a real Christmas tree kinda person or do you go with a real fake one?

I have a fake Christmas tree. I'm not opposed to the real ones. We never had one growing up because my brother has terrible allergies. So I've always been more comfortable with the fake trees. They're so much less maintenance, and they look just fine. I haven't figured out where I'm going to put the tree this year ... it'll be my first Christmas in my very own house. Pretty cool, huh?

3. What are you thankful for?

A wonderful family, supportive and fun friends, my health, my furbabies, my job, music and baseball ... you know, all the things that keep me going and give me reason to get out of bed everyday.

4. Which fashion fad from the past do you wish you could wear today?

I used to love poodle skirts and saddle shoes (I may have watched "Grease" too much), but I don't know that I'd want to wear them now. Hmm. I really can't think of anything.

5. Do you wait until the "low fuel" light comes on before you fill up the gas tank?

Growing up, we lived about ten miles from the nearest gas station, so I was taught never to let my gas get too low. I usually fill up when I have about a quarter tank left. I've only gotten the "low fuel" warning once with my new car, and it gave me a minor panic attack. Never again.

I have a fun weekend ahead.
This guy is going to be playing a concert IN MY LIVING ROOM!

Happy Friday everyone!

Lots of firsts

2011-11-16T08:09:00.000-06:00

You know that saying, "you never forget your first." It can apply to lots of events and people, and I think the phrase adequately sums up my last week, month and even year.

I've been collecting a lot of firsts this year -- bought a house, successfully ran an entire 5K (twice), attended a bachelorette party, went to Las Vegas (those last two things belong together), etc.

November has been especially very "first" heavy.

I rode my first train on Nov. 8, traveling from Baltimore to Washington, D.C. on Amtrak to hang out with my friend, Ellen, for the day. She took me around the CNN offices (where she works) and then we took in the Newseum (my journalist heart was happy) and the National Museum of Art. It was a great day that went by much too quickly.

While staying in Baltimore, I had Brazilian coffee for the first time. My best friend, Bruna, is a Brazil native, and I was staying with her and her family in the week leading up to her wedding. Brazilian coffee is strong and delicious. Loved it. I only wish I knew more Portuguese so I could have gotten to know Bruna's extended family a little better.

On that note, I was also in a wedding for the first time ever. I will never forget the day Bruna asked me (via text, of course) if I would be in her wedding. We've been best friends since a chance meeting in an N Sync IRC chat room in June of 1998, so I didn't even pause before saying, "yes." The months leading up to the wedding had been a whirlwind and tumultuous, and I ended up serving as maid of honor. I don't even care if my maid of honor status was by default; I was flattered just to play a role in Bruna's wedding to Shay. I adore them more than words can say, and I look forward to watching them build a life and family together.

Here are a few of my favorite shots from the wedding, courtesy of Frest Photo (she was AMAZING!) ...

The whole weekend was a great success, many thanks to the parents and families of the newlyweds as well as the rest of the wedding party -- Stephanie, Julie, Jessica, Lisa, Taylah, Maddison, Brett, Tom, Peter, Jamie, Aaron, David, Marino and Owen. I sure hope I didn't forget anyone because I enjoyed meeting all of you.

My weekend ended with a not-so-fun first -- lost baggage. My flight landed in Omaha a little after 10 p.m. Sunday night. I was anxious to get on the road for my two-and-a-half hour drive home. Well, anxious to get home, not necessarily to make the drive. As I waited for my suitcase, I saw a man pick up a purple suitcase that looked a lot like mine, but since I wasn't sure, I decided we just had similar luggage. So I waited. And waited. One purple bag was left, but it was not mine. I regretted not stopping the man. The remaining purple bag had a tag complete with phone number and address, so I began calling the phone number, as did the baggage agent at the flight counter. Eventually, the man answered and said he'd be back soon. The wait cost me forty minutes, but I suppose I was fortunate it all went that smoothly. Still, it was a first I would have rather not encountered. Especially not after a long day of traveling that was not yet over.

All those firsts and November is still quite young. I'm hosting my very first living room concert this weekend. The very talented Ernie Halter will be playing for select guests at my home. I'm very excited to see him again and to have several of my friends see and hear him for the first time.

WLJ: Down and up again

2011-11-15T17:23:00.000-06:00

Last week, I stepped on the scale before taking off on my week-long trip. I was relieved to see I'd lost 2.4 lbs. And reassured that it was, indeed, pretty much a hormonal gain I'd experienced before that.

I can't blame the same thing this week. My weight has bounced back up 1.4 lbs. I pretty much expected that though. I spent all of last week preparing for my best friend's wedding. I ate late meals (and not healthy ones either, for the most part), drank alcohol and didn't consume my usual 80 oz. of water each day. Although I probably walked at least eight miles around Washington, D.C., that was the only workout I did. With all of that "bad" behavior, it's no wonder I gained a little weight.

Life is finally slowing down a little though, and I can begin to focus on my weight-loss goal again.

But wait ... the holidays are coming up. Those are always tough. Anyone have any survival tips?

Weight-loss goal: 40 lbs.
This week's progress: - 1 lb.
Progress to date: -13.2 lbs.
Non-scale victory: N/A

Music Monday: Ernie Halter - "Try"

2011-11-14T17:40:00.004-06:00

This guy will be playing in my living room on Saturday. If you live near NW Iowa and/or feel like a Saturday roadtrip, let me know. I still have room for a few more people to join us.