The only problem?
You don't want him.
I've been in this position so many times. I've gone on a few dates and known a handful of guys with whom the interest was incredibly lopsided. They were so clearly interested, but I ... just wasn't.
I've been criticized so many times for letting these guys go. And I'd be lying if I said I didn't sometimes wonder if I'd made a mistake. Or how my life might be different now if I'd held on. But when I get right to it, I know there was no mistake made. If I'm not feeling it, it's best to let him go. I deserve better. And so does he.
I can't be the only one who's been there. Obviously I'm not. Delta Rae has a song about it. This girl's vocals are amazing and the tune just reminds me of all the situations and people I alluded to above.
By the way, Delta Rae's entire catalog is incredible. I discovered them earlier this month and I feel like I've been missing out for a long time. If you get a chance to see them live -- GO!
I'm all for giving people a real shot, but if the spark isn't there, it's not there. No amount of forcing it will make it so. Alas... And I've never heard of this girl, but I like her! She's got a Sheryl Crow vibe about her.
ReplyDeleteSo so beautiful! How have I never heard this song?!
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